Catagelophobia or Katagelophobia.
Yes, unfortunately such a fear of being judged by society does exist.This phobia is called sociophobia.
Social phobia or Social Anxiety Disorder is the closest thing I can find to the fear of being rude. It is basically a fear of being judged by others or embarrassed. In this case, the judgement would be someone finding the person with the phobia rude or disrespectful.
Social phobia includes the fear or phobia of having no friends. Individuals with social phobia have a strong fear of being judged by others and of being embarrassed.
The fear of being embarrassed, judged, or scrutinized by others in social situations is known as social anxiety. It is a common mental health condition that can lead to feelings of self-consciousness, fear of negative evaluation, and avoidance of social interactions. Therapy and medications can be effective treatments for managing social anxiety.
Xenophobia, the fear of strangers, foreigners, and aliens.
The phobia you may be talking about is known as social phobia or social anxiety. More information on this phobia that is often left misunderstood can be found here: www.anxietynetwork.com/spleast.html I hope this helps :D
None as such, it could be Pnigophobia [ fear of being smothered, or Aphenphosmphobia [ fear of being touched ].
The fear of being startled is called phobophobia(literally, fear of fear).
Fear of being watched is one of the symptoms of social phobia.
Philophobia- Fear of falling in love or being in love.http://phobialist.com/
Biblicaly speaking if you are a widow, then you are free to re-marry without remorse or fear of being judged an adulterer.
Fear of being imperfect? That would be Atelophobia.