What to expect when you leave a narcissist?

Answer 1

They will beg for you to come back, and when you do, they will be "nice" for a few weeks and then everything will start back up. Once you really put your foot down, they will move on and get someone to replace you. Most likely someone with a low self esteem.

Answer 2

Highly narcissistic people usually have one of two responses to being left. Both are aimed at protecting the narcissist's inflated view of themselves. In either case the narcissist does not really mourn the loss of the one who leaves but only the inconvenience of doing without the things they gave him or her.

1. They devalue the person leaving as though they were worthless and inferior. They may cut off all contact as though the other ceases to exist. This way they can deny that the other was ever importance to them and believe that they are better off without them.

2. They want revenge for being abandoned. These narcissists might stalk, harass, assault or otherwise make the life of their abandoner a misery. They will make a divorce as traumatic as possible for example.See the following link on this subject:

www.ultimate-self.com/the-narcissist's-revenge/

Answer 3

Give yourself time to look at the situation as it all happens really quickly you are on a rollarcaster ride from start to end and it doesnt stop when they leave you not straight away but it does get better as you realise that they are the ones with the problem and you was just unfortunate to be there main target.i did alot of research into Narcissism and it gave me alot of answers it really helped me go through the stages and recover.

Answer 4

NO, it's your loss if you leave the beautiful wonderful them! My late mother was a narcissist and did not think about anybody except herself. Was a horrible parent, and even worse grandparent.

Answer 5

If you don't respond then they won't respond....not responding on your part could mean indifference to them and will show that by not responding your not being guided by fear, fear perhaps of the consequences if indeed u do not respond and/or do wot they say. Th most important thing is for them t feel in control, they wud give up money, materialistic stuff..a relationship before the illusion of control. If u don't respond it will look like your no longer under their control, so they have no use for you anymore.

Answer 6

Stalking, trying to reel you back in.

NO CONTACT

www.vainencounters.com

Answer 7

Why on earth would you leave me? I am awesome

Answer 8

they wont care