because they think they know as much as the therapist ==NEW ANSWER HEADLINE== Not only do they think they know as much as the therapist....they KNOW they know more. Plus, seeking therapy would be admitting that they have a problem. It's never their problem, you see. It's just that other people don't do what they want every minute of every day--including disappearing whenever they want you "disappeared". Seeking therapy or listening to a therapist would indicate much more health than these N's ever have. If you're already perfect, you don't need therapy.
Start looking for a new job.
Yes. Go onto: www.google.com Then type in: Treatment for Narcissistic Personality Disorder?" Don't be surprised to find that there is little help because Narcissists are not labeled "Narcissistic" without a good reason. They feel they are right and everyone else is wrong, so it's highly doubtful they would ever seek counseling and if they did they wouldn't believe what the counselor told them anyway. Few Narcissistic people are every helped and therefore it's difficult to really study a group of people that are narcissistic.
Leave, then empty the bank.
No contact is the best way to part ways with a narcissist. You must remain consistent and end contact completely and forever.
A narcissist would not want help because he or she would not think there was anything wrong. Therefore, you can't help a narcissist; even when a narcissist is court ordered into therapy, there is little a professional can do to help a person change this personality type.
http://narcissismcured.com/Narcissism_Cured.html
Psychiatric therapy, but unfortunately narcissists are so into themselves (selfish, egomaniacal to the point of verbal abuse and sometimes physical abuse) that they feel they don't need help and most seldom will go for treatment.
Oh my God noooooooo
That it didn't work out. The rest is none of their business.
Get a police order of protection
Time and therapy. Read the book WOMEN WHO LOVE PSYCHOPATHS for more insight.
You can't. If a person is a true narcissist, you can't 'make' them behave otherwise. Narcissism can only be modified by a professional and then only if the narcissist is motivated to try.