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My Girlfriends brother is a full blown narcissist. He is 31, never had a relationship with a girl, and is constantly seeking supply. At first it seems like ADD, they cant focus on you when you talk, the conversation always diverts back to themselve. Try a really neat little experiement like i did tonight. The narcissiist has been lifting weights ( 15 minutes a day 4-5 times per week) and honestly beleieves that his arms have grown immensely. Ignore this. He also was describing how is prison guard training had him qualify with a shotgun. I was ignoring every word and he couldn't handle it, it got the point that he actually pretended like he had a fake gun he was firing just to get my attention. And yes constant name dropping. Keep in mind this personnever fininshed college, is constantly helped by mommy and Daddy when he gets in financial concerns. Yea, ask any questions. By the way I am a licensed therapist.

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