Possibly because you are just an extention of her and if you look ugly or weird without it she will feel embarassment so she doesn't want to take the risk. My advice, do it anyway and be yourself.
It isn't pretty
Beat you with a shoe and tie you to a bed.
No doubt. You didn't say what color his mustache was originally, but many men's staches become yellowish with age, and there are certainly other causes as well.
Abigail Adams
The usual response of a narcissistic husband is to not want his wife to leave - because he can't imagine the thought or image in his head of any other guy being intimate with her, in any way. It is a big problem, on his part. Your task is to ask the quesiton, "Am I better off with him or without him?". The answer to this question should drive your actions (rather than any guilt feelings you may have about what your husband is left to deal with).
She mistakes him to be her husband (Mike's Grandfather), who is also named Mike. He died a while ago and she mistakes them becasue Mike has a moustache similar to the moustache that her dead husband had.
You call the police.
Why when I go on this website it says the question is there but yet, it has NO answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Suck it up and get a good lawyer. Also, read "without conscience". It illuminates how to deal with people like that.
You probably should have figured this out before you got married. Best advise really would be to get counseling, because that is a problem which will lead to severe difficulty.
Very rarely can they change. Many will maintain their marriage while acquiring additional "trophies" on the side. Their significant other will feel so lucky for the limited time the she has with him that she will turn a blind eye to the others. After a while she may realize the she can't live like that any more but it will be after years of abuse from the narcissistic husband she has loved uncontrollably for years.
Yes. If you forgive someone you don't wish them any harm but the hurt feelings can stay with you for a long time.