You want your narcissistic partner to leave your home he refuses to go how do you get him to leave?

Answer 1

Set boundaries on the things you control, and don't try to control the things you can't. None of us can make someone do something if they really don't want to do it. If you and your partner share a lease/mortgage, then you can't make them leave. You will probably have to leave yourself. But, if you control the living arrangements, you can take concrete steps to evict them (bear in mind that even if someone just lives with you, and pays no rent, some states still consider this a tenant situation and you must follow eviction steps). One can also move their belongings to a neutral location, change the locks, etc. If he or she won't leave, or threatens you, after you have taken preliminary steps, call the police. He or she is either trespassing or (in the case of threatening) committing a crime. The important thing to remember when dealing with a narcissistic person is that they don't have to agree with or like your choices, but you have the right to set boundaries. Be prepared for them to be upset, but don't let that prevent you from making healthy choices.