Yes, we have bridal showers. We also have baby showers.
The only things we do not observe are celebrations that have the worship of pagan gods as the root of the practice. For example, Easter (fertility goddess Oestre- hense the eggs and bunnies), Christmas (celebration of the winter solstice/Saturnalia), birthdays (goddess Ashtoreth) etc. etc.
This is because in Exodus 20, (where the 10 commandments are) God said "You must not have any other gods before me- you must not bow down to them nor be induced to serve them"
That idea is carried on throughout the scriptures and was repeated by Jesus him self in answer to Satan, who had offered him kingdoms in return for an act of worship. Jesus reply was "it is written- it is to Jehovah your God you must worship, and to Him alone you must render sacred service"
So- anything that carries the ancient practices of false god worship (even if it has been re-named and christianized... to induce people to worship) Witnesses don't participate.
Baby showers and bridal showers have no roots in ancient worship of anyone.
They are just gatherings to help support newly married couples (and among Witnesses, it is even more important to get a little help because we don't live together or set up house prior to marriage) or to help out new parents and also show support for them.
It would depend on the occasion. If you are giving as a wedding present, anniversary gift, baby shower gift, graduation, retirement - or just because you want to give a gift... these are acceptable. However, if they in celebration of a holiday that Jehovah's Witnesses do not celebrate - it would be inappropriate for you to give one.
Whilst 'respecting', they do not give 'honour', as they believe this is only for God.
People give wedding gifts show their appreciation for being at their wedding and sharing that great day with them. All of the guests that appear to enjoy it should receive a gift.
You can give your fiance his wedding gift the day before the wedding or on your wedding night as it should be private when the two of you exchange gifts.
No, you do not have to give wedding gifts back to guests when divorcing within the first year of marriage. The gifts would be part of the contents divided by the husband and wife.
Gifts are not customary at an engagement party because they are expected at the wedding and etiquette dictates that those who are invited to an engagement party should be invited to the wedding. If you choose to give a gift you can but it is not required or expected.
They requested that the guests should give to charity, instead of giving gifts.
The golden wedding anniversary gifts are usually given on the 50th anniversary. Average gifts are necklaces, rings, and furniture. Your women will appreciate this and use it often.
I'm Kurdish and when we went to a Kurdish wedding everyone brought a gift and they only invited so that you give them a gift.
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Now that the wedding is called off and if you received 'gag gifts' it is not necessary to return those gifts, but if you were given gifts such as a watch or something else then you should give the gifts back to the people who gave them to you (most of your friends would probably want you to keep the gifts anyway.)
This is funny, I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses and am happy to answer this questions. Yes you do give gifts. We don't celebrate most holidays or secular observances, but marriage was instituted by God himself with the first human couple and its something that we think is very special. Our weddings our very happy occasions. Enjoy! I am also a Jehovah's Witness and wanted to add that since we celebrate few occasions often there is MANY gifts at weddings!