Gift Giving Dos and Donts for Non Jews on Hanukkah?

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Though Hanukkah is actually more of a historical remembrance than a major Jewish holiday, its close proximity to the Christian holiday of Christmas has resulted in the modern practice of Hanukkah gift giving. In reality, Hanukkah is a minor Jewish holiday that is traditionally not associated with gift giving. And while Jews don't see Hanukkah as the "Jewish Christmas," they recognize that many non-Jew friends, neighbors, and co-workers want to include them in the holiday festivities through gift-giving. If you are one of the Christmas revelers who want to include your Jewish compatriots in the holiday festivities, there are certain rules to consider when selecting a Hanukkah gift. Keep it Kosher Not all Jews follow a Kosher diet, but you should at least respect the Kosher tradition. Avoid food gifts that are pork-based, such as hams or sausages. Don't give items containing shellfish like shrimp or lobster, and make sure all food items in a gift basket are certified Kosher. Don't give Christmas-themed gifts Yes, those reindeer figurines are cute and sure, the red and green snowflake pajamas are on sale, but those are Christmas motifs. Avoid Christmas-themed gifts like fruitcake, nativity sets, poinsettias, or Santa Claus designs, and remember that the colors of Hanukkah are blue and white (red and green just screams Christmas). And don't wrap the gift in Christmas wrapping paper or give a Christmas card. Stick with general patterns or pick up a roll of Hanukkah themed wrapping paper. Keep it traditional If you're unsure of what kind of gift to give, lean toward the traditional aspect of the season. Dreidels or chocolate coins known as Hanukkah gelt are great for children, while menorah candles or jelly-filled doughnuts are good choices for adults. Or think about what kind of gift you would give the person if it was his or her birthday. Gift certificates, books, toys, DVDs, electronic devices, scarves, jewelry, or gift baskets are all appropriate choices. A donation to a non-denominational charity in the recipient's name is also a thoughtful gesture. Give during Hanukkah Hanukkah gifts should be given during one of the eight nights of Hanukkah. Giving a Hanukkah present on Christmas Eve turns it into a Christmas present. Don't over think it Giving a Hanukkah gift is not a way to bridge the divide between faiths but is meant to demonstrate affection for the recipient. Choose a meaningful gift that comes from the heart. It's just that simple.