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In general, yes, women who are sexually aroused are ok with being fingered. Ask before you try anything new with whoever's vagina this is (yours, your gal's, your bro's, I don't know).

Couple points of advice if you're going to start fingering anyone:

1) If the other person's hymen is intact, then your fingering may/may not break that. So if that's a thing you're concerned with, be aware.

2) Just putting your finger in and out like a straight pencil will probably not feel great for her. If you've got some manual dexterity, put your finger in and make a "come here" gesture, so you're curling your finger towards her belly button. That may not be super-awesome sexy, but it's better than pushing a straight finger in and out.

3) For the love of all that is good, please please please talk to your partner if this isn't your vagina. Ask how they're feeling, what's good, what's bad, all that stuff. You'll get better, they'll be happier, it's win-win.

4) Clitoral stimulation is usually more enjoyable for women than fingering. Try that out at some point, too. If you're male and reading this, insertion is sort of analogous to someone playing with your scrotum. It might feel good, but it's unlikely you'll be thrilled by it. Go make friends with your favourite vagina's clitoris.

Keep it safe, keep it fun, keep talking. Go forth and finger someone who's willing!

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