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In my opinion, NO! Men hold grudges against being held accountable for their actions. Just like us woman hold grudges against affairs! If your like me, it took finding an empty, tore up box of condoms to leave my abuser! I have had my hair pulled out (by the root), my chin kicked in (scare for life), spat on (full lungers), ran into with his car (on purpose) etc........ Even after all of that, I kept going back to him. It was not until I knew for a fact that he had been with another woman that made me leave for good! Guess what?! Even with proof in hand, he still tried to deny it! I got him to confess by telling him "I know your lying, I can see it in your eyes!" When I asked him why he lied to me, he said with tears in his eyes "Because I did not want to hurt you!" Can you believe that one? I have a five year restraining order against this person (or demon), and he still calls me! He has sent me SEX-TING (text), had his drunk friend leave messages (while I hear him laugh in the background time I accidently answered a call from him and he said "Yeah, I'm sorry, I meant to call my mother.....I'm not even suppose to be talking to you.......Yeah, I really wanna...." That is when I hung up! I think because of the restraining order he most likely wants to kill me! He has tried almost everything to get me back! I think he wants revenge because I finally rejected him. I truly believe that because I took a little legal action we CAN NOT save the relationship. And, that is why I did it! I am frightened by him, but I am more affied of me going back to him! Yes, I still love him and miss him very much! I know that is sick! But staying with him would have been even sicker! I am gathering evidence against him so when I call the police.....it won't just get a "slap on the wrist". Girls, take my advice.......If you have to press charges against a man or get a stay-away order, you need to be done with the relationship! Your mind is in the right place, it is your heart that is confused! And trust me, they don't change!
What else can I help you with?
Is your boyfriend abusive?
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
Can an abuser easily forget his ex girlfriend who broke up with him?
Once the abuser realizes he does not have control of her, eventually he will give up and move on. Sounds to me as if he needs to seek help. Stay away from him. Don't answer phone calls. If he keeps bothering you, press charges against him. But no, the abuser will not "easily forget" about the ex-girlfriend.
Can a 17-year-old girl whose abuse was many years ago and abuser's charges lain 4 years ago get a restraining order against her brotherabuser NOW after the charges were lain?
Of course Of course Of course
How many battered women press charges against their abuser?
Not enough!! The thing that most women are afraid of when pressing charges is that their abuser will come after them. It is very difficult to get away from one because the abuser get to your self esteem , self confidence, the abuser breaks every obstcale that would cause his/her behavior to become known. The other side of this situation would be that the law does not do enough to protect the ones getting abused. One thing that should be changed in these situation is the fact that the abuser has to do something in order for a restraining order to be effective. When the law is called, they iether take too long to get there or the abuser is gone before the police arrive. I also believe that when it is shown that women have been in an abusive relationship, and they take the law into there own hands, there should not be a strict sentence imposed upon them when they go to court. Folks, enough is enough and this is why the children of such relationships become violent sometimes. This comes from my experience with this type of relatonship.
Why does a woman reconcile after three attempts to leave an abusive relationship?
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
What makes people vulnerable to abuse and the power relationship between the abuser and the victim?
the abuser is called sadist & the victim is called masochist.
Can a parent take their sons abuser to court after his suicide?
Yes, a parent can still pursue a civil lawsuit against the estate of their child's abuser after the abuser's suicide. While criminal charges cannot be brought posthumously, civil actions for damages related to the abuse may still proceed. The parent would typically file a claim against the abuser's estate, potentially seeking compensation for emotional distress, medical expenses, or other related damages. It's advisable for the parent to consult with a legal professional to navigate the complexities involved in such cases.
Will abuser change in a new relationship?
Yes and no it all depends on the person
What are the effects of domestic violence in relationship to economic inequality?
it shows that the abuser tries to be the more dominant in the relationship.
What are the ways in which you cannot be heavily involved with an abuser but want to keep the relationship?
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused).You cannot have a relationship with an abuser without feeling abused.
How can I put away your abuser for life?
YouÊ may not be able to put your abuser away for life.Ê You do need to protecct yourself and file the appropiate police reports, to be sure that charges are being filed and he or she can face prosecution for the acts of abuse.
