Can minors choose what parent to live with if the parents haven't been married?

Answer 1

AnswerTechnically, unless you are eighteen, you cannot fully decide for yourself which parent you will be allowed to live with. However, children (usually aged thirteen and older) have petitioned the courts to have change custody from one parent to another.

Be aware that the judge will look at various aspects, not just what you want. Why exactly do you want to live with your other parent? Is your current custodial parent in any way abusing you or preventing you from going to school? If your mad because your one parent won't let you date or drive a car and living with your other parent you could, a judge probably won't see the need to change custody.

The judge will look at your grades, your school attendance, any criminal history on your part. He will also see how mature you act and ask you why you feel your home life would be improved living with your other parent. He can and may hear testimony from both your parents about how they feel about the situation.

Answer 2

In most states, there are limitations of age in place for when a child can be heard by the court for choosing which parent to live with. There are many factors the court will use in determining, such as , but not limited to, age, maturity level, and the relational status of the parent(s) with the child(ren). The court does not have to grant the request, or hear the petition from the child. It is ultimately the court's discretion whether to hear this motion or not.

Answer 3

The minor can choose only if the parents agree. Otherwise, if the child does not want to live with the parent with legal custody the non-custodial parent must petition the court for primary custody and provide compelling evidence as to why the court should take custody from the mother.

Note that an unmarried mother has sole legal custody of her child until the father establishes his paternity legally. Once he has established his paternity he can request custody and/or visitation rights.

Answer 4

== == The courts will take the juveniles wishes into account, but at no age can a child simply decide which parent they wish to live with.

Answer 5

age 18

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