No one can gain custody prior to birth.
An unmarried mother has sole custody of her child until the father establishes his paternity in court. Grandparents cannot take the child. The parents have to consent to a guardianship, or, their rights have to be taken from them by the court if they are determined to be unfit.
In Texas, if a child is 14 or older, he/she can choose to live with a grandparent as long as permission is given by the custodial parent.
The grandparents should file for court ordered custody and child support, retroactive for 12 years.
Anybody who wants to can pay, but in the absence of a benefactor the the grandparents would pay if they are initiating the visit and the parents would usually pay if they or the children are initiating the visit.
Yes,the dead beat is expected to pay up.
Sure. No different then doing it for your kids. But, be aware, YOU could be liable if the Grandchild gets sued in an accident as YOU are the legal owner.
Once paternity is established, the non-custodial parent has the right to request visitation, just as the custodial parent has the right to request support.
Minor's are not allowed to choose with whom they wish to live, although the judge may speak with the child and take his or her opinions into consideration when making custodial decisions. Likewise, the grandparent who has temporary custody cannot release the minor into the custody of any other person including a parent without first obtaining permission from the court.
Child support and visitation are two separate issues. The custodial parent can file a suit for child support but cannot deny the non custodial parent custodial or vistation rights is said parent wants those rights. That being said, the non custodial parent can file for custody or visitation regardless of whether the child support issue is addressed or not. Such matters are decided by the court if the parents cannot find an equitable solution.
As an illegal, he probably does not have access to the legal system. The grandparents should probably determine if the father is a fit parent and, if so, do the right thing.
Generally a parent with visitation rights is a non-custodial parent. You need to check the court orders. See related question link.
Depends upon the persons will, relatives, non-custodial parents and the judge
No. As the grandparent you have no rights to the child. But since she is not married to the father he will have to prove paternity with a DNA test if he wants parental rights such as custody, visitation and pay child support.