What do you do when your best friends husband is cheating with a 17 year old girl?

Answer 1

• Being a good friend there should have developed an open and honest relationship and you should try talking to your best friend and explain that what they are doing is not right. If they become angry or deny the fact they are having an affair then you have the choice of keeping out of this entirely (which is often wise) or, tell your friends until they can straighten their act out and be more honest to their mate you are having nothing to do with them because they have put you in a difficult position.

just tell that immature pesron who doesn't take relationships seriously that he/she has to stop or it will lead him/her to bad gossip and a broken hearted loved one.

Answer 2

Are you really asking this question? You're suppose to call the cops considering it is illegal to engage in sexual relations with minors. If you don't want to call the cops then this is what I would do: (1A) SURPRISE! *Snap* get a picture. Some kind of evidence of their indiscretion; if you can. When you know they are together barge in with a camera and just snap the picture... surprising them in the middle of sex is marvelous! He can't say he just slipped and fell (especially if the 17 y/o is on top) (1B) Tell her husband that he must tell his wife or you will tell her for him; also tell him you will be there with him when he tells her the bad news. She needs moral support. (2) If you know the girl then when she is not around her home (maybe even when she's doing the deed with the dude) tell her mother what is going on. You can tell her mother when she is there but if she knows you know then she isn't going to let you tell her ma. (3) Let your friend tell you all about how much of a dog he is and how much she hates him. Agree Agree Agree. Let her vent as long as she wants and let her cry as much as she wants. It may get old but trust me she needs to get it off her chest. (4) Don't let her do anything stupid, like hit the girl in the head with a Baseball bat, cause that will get her thrown in jail. Believe me, I know, I did just that when my ex husband was caught in bed with a 16 y/o.

Answer 3

Well the best thing to do is to tell her husband so she knows. If he found out himself I am sure he would be really mad and it would help to have proof too!! I am really sorry to hear about this. Good luck! However also it's up to you but you don't have to if you don't want to that is but the most logical and best choice is to tell him!

ANSWER:

If I am her best friend, it doesn't matter if it's not my business but I will talk to her till she open her eyes to reality. I will not leave her alone until she knows that she is destroying her life especially her husband's life. And if she won't listen to me, then bluntly I will tell her to divorce her husband so that way she can do everything she wanted, dirty her name, be called names, but I will not let her ruin someones else life because of lust.