You can wait until they pass away. Then you can decline the responsibility and the court will appoint someone.
Your details are all mixed up. An executor handles the estate of a person who has died. Heirs are the individuals who are entitled to inherit the property of a person who has died. A Power of Attorney allows one person to act on behalf of another LIVING person. A trustee is the person with the power to act for a trust. Any fiduciary has the responsibility of not wasting any assets.
Generally, the first named executor cannot choose his/her substitute if the will names an alternate executor. We follow the decedent's wishes, not the executor's. The one exception could be if the will itself gives the executor the power to name a successor, which is pretty rare. Further, if the alternate executor has died or also refuses to act as the executor, the first named executor still has no power to choose a successor. Normally, in that situation, the person to handle the estate is chosen from among the residuary legatees, since they have the greatest interest in seeing the estate administered.
The executor has no power while the person is living. Until they are appointed by the court, they have no power.
If the will names an alternate executor in the event the first named executor dies or refuses to serve, then that person should become the new executor. If the will does not name an alternate executor, or if the alternat has died or refuses to serve, then generally one of the residuary legatees named in the will should be appointed. In some states this person is not known as an executor but rather an administrator c.t.a. This is an abbreviation for the Latin "cum testamento annexo", meaning, "with the will amended." Keep in mind that probate laws differ from state to state. This is a general answer and might not apply in every state.
Yes, an executor can turn down the responsibility. The court will appoint another person and would probably approve it without a second thought.
A conservator is appointed by the court to manage the estate of a living person who is incapable of managing their own affairs. An executor is appointed by the court to settle the estate of a person who died leaving a will.
They can decline the responsibility. In most cases the court will gladly use the other person.
The naming of the executor is something done by the person making the will. If they are still living, they can do what they like and no signature is required.
The executor has no power over a living person. They could be appointed conservator by the courts and have the ability to do so. The executor is only appointed after the death of the testator.
You will probably have to go to court and get the judge to order it.
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Yes.