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There are plenty of fathers out there trying very hard and the judges just push them off and give everything to the mother! I have seen it happen and its very sad. The evidence in our case was the Father having a domestic violence restraining order against the mother from him and the child and the judge still gave her full custody. It happens all too much and needs to change. It should be the evidence and not the gender.

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I would say that most court/judges do side with the mother. Even when the dad is the best option for the child. It takes a good judge that is looking at the best interests of the child and not just being the mom.

Another PerspectiveThe father must consult with an attorney who specializes in custody issues who can review the situation and explain the father's rights and options. Also, it's not a matter of courts "siding with the mother". There are reasons why mothers are granted custody of young children although fathers who have taken an active role in caring for their children are getting custody more often. Consider the following. Background:

Up to and through the early twentieth century fathers were typically favored for child custody if the marriage ended. That custom gradually changed since the courts had to acknowledge that the mother was the primary care giver and she should keep raising the children in their tender years. That presumption gave way to the best interest of the child doctrine in the 1970s. It is a fact of family life that mothers usually provide the day to day, primary care of their children even if they work outside the home. It should be remembered that shared parenting is the best possible solution to a divorce. Fighting over custody often has other motivations at its root such as wanting to hurt the other parent, wanting to maintain control and wanting to avoid paying child support. The mother is often the target in custody battles and those battles set the stage for years of legal wrangling.

Courts know that generally speaking, mothers are the ones who provide the day to day care for their children, even if they also work outside the home. It is also true that many fathers take an active role in raising their children. If the father was the primary caregiver then he should be considered primary custody since caregiving should be the main qualification for awarding physical custody along with a healthy, stability and safe environment.

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