In the United States and most Western countries a surviving spouse has the legal right to make decisions as the next of kin. In the Unites States and most Western countries when a parent dies leaving no surviving spouse, all his children are his next of kin.
As for inheritance, you must check the laws of intestacy for your jurisdiction to determine who inherits. It varies in different jurisdictions. Most pass the decedent's property to the surviving spouse. Some jurisdictions also provide a share to surviving children. You can check the laws in your state at the related question link below.
Mother, if you mean wife of the deceased husband.
The son.
If you are speaking of the relative or relatives entitled to share in your property if you die intestate (without a will) then if you are unmarried your parents are your next of kin. If they were deceased then your sister would be your next of kin. In another sense they are all your next of kin. See related question link.
The step son has no relationship to the aunt. So technically the niece would be the next of kin.
next of kin would be eldest child
The nephews and nieces have equal standing under the law. However, if one wishes to speak of royal precedent, then the deceased's eldest sister's eldest son, and if she had no son, then the eldest son of the oldest sister who did have sons.
Generally, the grandchildren would be the next of kin. You can check state laws of intestacy at the related question below.
Fitness depends on the individual, not a relationship. Next of kin, however, is usually a common way of saying "closest surviving relative" If the deceased was married, the surviving spouse is the closest relative. After the spouse usually come children, then siblings, then parents, then cousins.
A son-in-law is not considered a next of kin in the legal sense. Next of kin typically refers to a person's closest living blood relatives, such as a spouse, children, parents, or siblings. However, the relationship with a son-in-law can still be important in familial matters.
In legal terms, the next of kin is typically determined by the laws of the jurisdiction in question. Generally, a spouse (wife) is considered next of kin before a child (son) in matters such as inheritance and medical decisions. However, specific circumstances and local laws can affect this hierarchy. It's important to consult legal guidelines or documents for accurate information in any given situation.
If a person who has no spouse or children dies the living parent(s) would be the next of kin for purposes of inheritance. You can check your state laws of intestacy at the related question link below.
The son would be the inheritor of the remains of the estate in all the rules if succession that I have ever seen.