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The biggest reason is financial. Too many young couples get into deep financial trouble all to quickly. Without a decent income, they acquire plastic debt (credit card charges) and soon become financially overwhelmed.

Another reason is lack of communication. Communication is key in any relationship - if that stops, for whatever reason, it needs to get back into the loop of daily living if the relationship is to thrive. Trust is another aspect that causes disruption in a marriage - if you don't totally and 100% trust your mate beyond any shadow of any doubt, then you don't belong together. As the two have become one, you now must work together in everything you do ... for if you don't, the relationship will soon end.

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They Have a Single Bank Account

This is a difficult question to ask. Have you ever known a couple that has been divorced? Now ask them if they had a joint or separate bank account. What I have found is that a couple that gets divorced usually has separate bank accounts. One person in the relationship is being more selfish than the other. What happens is that with separate bank accounts it becomes a rivalry from the beginning. I bought this with my money. I paid for my trip to go with my friends; this is mine I paid for it.

Now if they have had a joint bank account when the marriage started, the conversations that they have will be. What are we going to save for? What are we going to buy? What are we going to achieve together? It is all about us.

Now if a couple wants to have a separate bank account this will work also because each one wants to put them self first and they would have had this conversation already. This is a very big topic for people to talk about before getting together and into a relationship.
People get divorced when they feel that the marriage is so badly damaged and that they are so incompatible with each other that to continue being married would only cause them more pain and discord.

Sometimes one partner is violent and abusive and the other must flee to safety (with the children if any) and use a mediator to obtain the divorce.

In many cases, one partner cheated and committed adultery (had sexual relations with another person outside the marriage), sometimes both partners will have had affairs. Sometimes they cannot forgive one another.

Sometimes people get married too quickly without realizing they're not really compatible.

Sometimes one partner finds a dream career far away from where they have their marital home, and the other knows he/she absolutely cannot move.

Sometimes it's after the loss of a child: by abduction or death by accident or disease, the process of intense grieving drives a couple apart rather than drawing them together. Some marriages don't survive tragedy.

Sometimes if one partner is very ill or is in an accident and becomes handicapped, the other feels overwhelmed and flees the marriage, compounding the trauma experienced by the other.

And sometimes one partner joins a fanatical political or religious group and the other cannot draw him/her away from it and must let go.

Sometimes the love is neglected and quietly dies.

In any case, divorce is a life-changing experience and both parties need time to heal, to be free to love again with someone new.

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