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First off, you understand that a four-year old has no idea what "hate" is?

The best thing is to validate their feelings first - "Wow, you sound really angry."

Then, tell how their actions make you feel - "I feel sad that you hate me."

Then, get them involved in problem-solving - "What are some other ways to let people know you're angry without saying you hate them?"

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15y ago

What else can I help you with?