Hi, Spend time with your dog. Make sure she feels comfortable in her home and attached to members of the household. Here's some guidelines on how to stop your dog from going to neighbor's house: http://dogtime.com/escaping.html
You can get the male dog neutered, this should stop him from urinating in the house as much as he did.
you would give the owner of the dog an anti stress pill or two to calm them down and then give them a bone
Keep your dog inside the house
give it some sleeping pills and have sex with it. you'll stop fantasising about it then. you'll just be remembering.
Buy a leash. ;)
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A dog does not stop going into season no matter what age she is, unless she is spayed.
you take the dog outside take him outside the household.
It may be scared or sick.
As much as you want to spend. Why not just buy your neighbors house and move your dog in...
potty train it
Daily brushing