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If your boyfriend is having a baby and it happened before you got together should you stay with him if you've been together 7 months or is it worth the drama?
Your boyfriend has an obligation to his child and that means paying child support. If he feels he doesn't need to pay child support then get rid of him because that means he's irresponsible and a bum. If he is serious and wants to be part of this child's life then there really isn't anything wrong with this and there is no reason you can't be his girlfriend and perhaps even spend time with his child providing his ex girlfriend is OK with this. As to whether you want to stick around is your decision and you have to ask yourself how much you love this guy. If you aren't sure, then give it time or move on. Sit down with you boyfriend and have a serious discussion as to how far he wants to take this involvement with his child. You need some answers and quick. Be stright up with him and ask if he still loves his ex girlfriend. I highly doubt it and it shouldn't interfere in you relationship together even if he so chooses to see his son/daughter. Give it a chance. It often happens where down the road some girl comes forth and has become pregnant from an ex boyfriend. However, I suggest your boyfriend get a blood test to be sure this baby really is his. His ex could have been dating someone else, and there are women out there that just look for an easy meal ticket to help raise that child. Without the blood test your boyfriend could be paying child support for some other guy's baby. I had a friend who recently heard from a young man claiming to be his son. His son is now 28 years old and it was a big blow to our friend. He never knew about his son because the mother didn't bother to tell him at the time she was pregnant. Our friend was excited, scared and really wanted to meet his son and they did, did a few things together, but unfortunately too much time had passed and they never really retained a good father/son relationship. Have that talk! Good luck Marcy
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you should just start talking again as friends and before your having sex.
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have a lot of unprotected sex and hope for the best. Or get the money together for an IVF treatment.
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You should not be having your boyfriend over if they're not home. Your parents won't trust you if you do things like that behind their backs. Plus, if you and your boyfriend end up having sex, you could become pregnant and ruin your life before you're even grown up.
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