One month before the event
Many baby showers are held during the last trimester of pregnancy and baby shower invitations are typically mailed out about a month before the party to allow people plan and RSVP.
You put the name of the young woman who is pregnant; where the baby shower will be held; address and the hostess' phone #.
Some unique do it yourself baby shower ideas include hanging baby clothes near where the shower is being held. You can create candy favors. For more ideas: http://www.ehow.com/info_8172828_do-baby-shower-decoration-ideas.html
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Both parent's names should be included on a baby shower invitation if the party is a couple's baby shower (sometimes called a coed baby shower). Otherwise, only include the mom's name. For examples of couple's baby shower invites, see related link below.
yeah it don't hurt anything and this 2nd child deserves its own baby shower I don't know if your meaning if it should have the same baby shower as the 1st child or if this baby should have a baby shower altogether and like if you can't afford it then get family and friends to put too and stuff and then this 2nd child will have its own stuff and also it will help you out a lot as well
Declining a baby shower invitation should be done properly and delicately. For tips, see the related link below under "How do you decline a baby shower invitation".
* It's an individuals choice and a second baby shower is acceptable. Afternoon baby showers are generally the most common.
* The best thing to do is communication with your daughter-in-law's mother to see if she would like to give a baby shower and if not, then let her know you would like to give the baby shower. Generally the friends of the daughter-in-law will give a baby shower, but it's always nice when the mothers get involved. Both mothers could work together for a surprise baby shower.
A shower for a baby boy and a shower for a baby girl are both termed a "baby shower". There are different party themes that you can do for a girl baby shower. For example, you could throw a princess baby shower, a pink baby shower, a cupcake baby shower, a flower baby shower, a ladybug baby shower, and many other themes. See related link below for more inspiration.
I would plan to have a baby shower after the first trimester, preferably the second. I would start ordering about a month before my baby shower date! Hope it helps