Are you and your baby daddy meant to be together?

Answer 1

Since you have a child together, you were certainly meant to come together at some time in your life. Maybe you are meant to be together forever, too, but maybe not. First, you need to think about your baby. Would the two of you together be good or not good for the future development of your child? Do you get along well? Would you be setting a good example for your child about how people who love each other and are together treat each other? Would your child be better cared for if you were together? Once you decide whether or not your child's life would be better, you can then think about your own life. Would your life improve if you were together? In what ways would it become better? In what ways would it be worse? Does he respect you? Does he treat you well? Is he caring and kind to you? You deserve a safe and happy life. Will he help you to achieve that? Or will he hurt your chances of being safe and happy? Will he bring drama into your life instead of security and love? Once you've figured out whether or not your life would be better, you can think about his life. Are you good for him? Do you bring out his best characteristics or his worst? Does he have a good chance of being happy with you? Or are his chances better if you are apart? THE MOST IMPORTANT thing to keep clear is this: your child will have a happy life if you and his daddy have a happy life. Your child will grow up to be a healthy person mentally if you and his daddy are healthy mentally. Give your child the best chance of success by being honest with yourself. Nobody is perfect, but are you and your baby daddy stable mentally, emotionally, and financially, and can you two give your child a good life together? Or is it better for the baby to grow up in a happy, healthy home with his two parents apart? It's a tough decision. Keep it clear and be honest, and you will make the best decision for your baby. Good luck.