no
Your stepson is not your biological son. He is, however, your husbands. He has the right not to let his under aged child go on vacation without him. He probably feels that his son is either to young or immature to be responsible without his fathers supervision.
to leave them alone, slavery is not acceptable not now or ever, no man may control another without his concent, supreme court ruling of the 1950's
No. Only in Utah is his consent not needed, just a notification.
If there is a custody agreement in place through the courts, the mother cannot take the child out of state without the fathers consent. If there is no agreement in place, the mother does not have to have the fathers consent.
You need to be 16 with parent consent. 18 without.
now a stepfather can't adopt a child without the concent of the child's father
Yes
Provided there's not custody order in place.
Not unless you were married (parental approval), or by court order.
no
No.
You have to be 18.
Fraud
Yes, just not with the children. see link
That is dependent of custody orders, but even without, the other parent could file an injunction.
an you have a paternity test done without a minors con cent
if a minor drinks alchol in your house without you knowledge what can happen to you as the parent?