How do you become a center of attraction?

Answer 1

Give off positive, constructive energy. People are attracted to positive charismatic energy.

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answer 2 Take an interest, a REAL interest in other people and their likes, dislikes, hobbies etc.

answer 3:

Ignore answer 2, you see, people that try to please others constantly for the attention, are disliked by everyone, and to take "REAL" interest into others stuff would simply be you convincing yourself that you are interested in let's say... I'd rather put a general example here:

Girl: I like shoes.

You: COOL! ME TOO!

Boy: I like to dance.

You: COOL! ME TOO!

Old man: I like running around naked after nuns.

You: (must have... REAL interest!) COOL ME! TOO!

Tough guy: I like tattoos and shooting people and gangsta stuff.

You: Me too!

Friend: I'd never shoot anyone, and tattoos is self harm.

You: Of course it is self harm, I'd never do anything that immoral, guns? Outlaw them!

Everyone: That guy/girl is just trying too hard. Get a life man.

Point: Attention seekers, do you like them? You could always get "REAL" interest in making clothes out of bat crap (guano), or kicking the elderly, but the trail to real interest is found, rather than decided to follow.

What you should do? Get confidence, seek approval from no one, and yet be honest and trustworthy, smile, brush you're teeth, shower (and basically all that stuff you're mom used to tell you), and rather than waiting for anyone to take the lead, or waiting to see what you're friends decide in order to make your move, just do what you want, what you feel like and what you enjoy. Sooner or later people will start following you there, and boom, you are captain America/ the cool guy/girl of the crew, the center of attention, etc., etc.

Example:

Old guy: and it started back in 1850 when I...

Friends: Sigh.. won't this guy ever shut up...

You: Excuse me sir, I am not interested in the least about what you are saying, would you please remain silent for the rest of the trip?

Friends: Wow!

Well there are two ways. One way, (some would say the easier way), is to become a superficial puppet who does whatever people want them to do. You will be very popular if you do things like drink, take drugs, and act promiscuous. However, your "friends" will not care one bit about you, and you will become a hollow person. The other better way is to join lots of clubs that interest you and meet people whose company you enjoy. Also, a facebook account might help you become really popular...but don't worry so much what people think of you, because people who exclude others are self-involved anyway. Just be yourself and you will meet some other nice people like you.