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Should you wait until you can afford to leave your verbal abuser because you have no other resources and nowhere else to go?
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∙ 17y ago
NO! See if there is a womans shelter where you live. Stay with a friend, co-worker, family. Just anyone to get out of that relationship. Good luck and God Bless:) There is never going to be a better time to make your life better than now. There are agencies in your town who can advise and help you find your way. If your abuser is not allowing you out to get a job and isolating you from other people, then your options are limited for your trying to do it on your own. You will have to accept outside help for now--you can pay it back by helping in the future. Right now, you need to find your own stability.
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The power relationship between the abuser and the victim?
The victim has no power or they would not be abused. The abuser always has the control. Children and the elderly are victimized often in society as well as men and women. The abuser will start out by abusing psychologically and 'put down' their victim until they leave their victim confused with no self confidence. The abuser may threaten to leave their victim (this is terrifying to the elderly); leave the wife and take the children; talk of killing the victim or anyone that is close to them. The abuser often isolates their victim so their victim has no family or friends to turn too and they have to suffer in silence and depend on their abuser.
What resources does a victim have who is considering leaving her abuser?
Look up 'Womens' Rescue' in Yellow Pages, and CALL THEM, they will help you both physically and emotionally. Dial 211, the National Help Hotline. They will be able to refer you to an organization in your area that will be able to help.
Why were people trying to kill Freddy cougar?
I assume you mean Freddy Krueger? Because he is a murderer, particularly of children. And in certain story lines a child abuser as well.
How can a victim leave an abuser with no money?
* Most victims of abuse just want to leave with the clothes on their back and are not worried about leaving their abuser penniless. The abuser has taken everything from their victim ... their dignity; peace of mind; brain washed them into believing no other man would want them and they are useless and will never make it out in the world on their own; alienated them from their family and friends and controlled all money issues in the relationship. If there are children involved then the best you can hope for is child support and that would have to go through the courts. Victims of abuse generally want no part of their abuser and will do anything to stay completely away. The victim should seek help from Women's Abuse Centers to find a 'safe place' until they can get on their feet. These centers give moral support; programs about victims of abuse; go to court with them; help with any children the victim may have and help them find a job. If you are smart you'll head out the door and never look back and not look for revenge because the abuser always loses in the end ... they hang themselves with their own rope.
Is it common for the abused victim to be smarter and better looking and more socially accepted than the abuser?
Yes. But it is also common for the abuser to be all of those things. Abusive realtions are common, physical and verbal, romantic and non.
Should you tell ex boyfrieds new girlfriend he is an abuser?
yes, because her safety is at risk
Should an animal abuser be able to keep their animal?
That's like asking "Should a child abuser be allowed to keep custody of their child?"
What you should not do for an abuser person?
you shouldn't do anything
Can you say to an abuser that you love him?
No, you should never tell an abuser you love them and if you think you love them then you need psychological counseling because abusing a person is not about love. You don't hurt the ones you love! Get out of this relationship while you still can!
What should cabin crew do if passanger abuses her?
Have the abuser arrested.
Should a woman stay in a verbally abusive relationship?
Nope. Because she she might get hurt even more. And the abuser might think it is ok to hurt them because they won't mind. Once they hit you, you should get out of that relationship.
What does abusadora mean in English?
It should mean "abuser," specifically one who is feminine.
If someone is an abuser and wants to stop what steps should he take?
The first - crucial - steps are to acknowledge that he is abuser and seek help. Abusers are usually in denial: If the abuser is also a narcissist (suffers from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder - NPD), this may be of some assistance:
What do dogs do to abusers?
Dogs either do nothing because they are scared or they attack the abuser...
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
Is assault common after the abuser probabtion ends?
If you ask this question, its because you are worried, if you are worried, its because you KNOW its going to happen again. GET AWAY from the ABUSER, is the ONLY answer, go find yourself a GREAT guy that would NEVER hit you.
If you unintentionally make your spouse afraid one time during an argument Should you be labelled an abuser considering it was not intended and an Abuser knowingly repeats his Abusive ways?
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
