What do you do when your ex-girlfriend wants you to move out of state?

Answer 1

If you love her and this is who you want to be with then go and get her. Often distant can be a factor that keeps two individuals that truly love each other and were meant to be apart. At least give it a shot because what you don't want is to let someone you truly love go and regret it or always wonder what could have been when you could have done something about it. If you love her and she loves you then go for it. If you believe in praying then pray about it. God Bless! CORRECTION: If you mean she is out of state and wants you to move to her state with her then this is my recommendations above. Seems to me you still love her if this is the case don't let your pride stand in the way of you being together. If it is more feasible for you to move where she is then by all means do that but talk to her and see if this is what you both want. Alot of times having too much pride can cost a lot of pain down the road. I had to read that question three times before I got what you meant, and only after reading the answer above. When I read it the first time (and the second), I was wondering why anyone would care what his ex-GF wants him to do. I was also thinking that although it's reasonable for a girl to say, "I don't want to see you anymore," it's totally unreasonable for her to say, "I don't want to see you anymore -- so get the hell out of this state!" I too was surprised that you mentioned an ex giving you ultimatums. Either you just split-up because of this problem or she's still running the show. Your life is important too so if you don't want to move out of State then don't! If she really cared about how you feel there is always an answer to every problem. Move on, it isn't worth it!