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I can think of two reasons a person might hate sex: their partner isn't doing it right, or they've had a previous experience so upsetting that they can't get past the memory. Either way, your wife is not happy (and you probably aren't happy, either).

So first, the two of you need to have a heart-to-heart talk. It might be hard to do this, but it will never be easier than it is right now. The longer it goes on, the harder it is deal with.

The goal of this conversation is not for either of you to convince the other that they're "wrong", it's just for the two of you to agree that (a) something (not someone!) is wrong and (b) the two of you need to do something about it. A family therapist can really help with this conversation, and with figuring out what to do next.

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16y ago

What else can I help you with?