I think this is an issue that many parents deal with when their children get older and have vehicles. The thing is that you both have to have respect for one another and the "child" has to observe the niceties as they share your home. Otherwise, they are just using you. I suggest you have a talk with the child, mutually setting expectations and then follow through if he doesn't. Things are bad, not horrible, if they are maintaining school attendance and grades--don't believe the child. Obtain copies of progress reports and report cards from school. If the child is not producing, show them the way to a GED and to a job. Then, if you own the car, retrieve the keys and stop paying the insurance. Change the locks on the doors and windows so they have to knock to get back in. If you are providing for expenses, and/or a cell phone, cut them off. These are all privileges that are earned by contributing to the household. You can also redecorate the room, and pack up their belongings.
This all sounds tough, but believe me, it only gets worse the longer you put up with it. You can be firm and still tell the child you love them, and ask them to dinner. Delayed maturity and growth just costs you worry and money as the child gets older and brings higher expenses with them. Credit cards, children they can't or won't care for, sponging of you because they can't afford a home, and drug problems are possible future issues.
Is your child of a selfish nature?
A seven year old child left home alone: SS would open file and do an investigation. The child would most likely be removed into a foster home until ss complete investigation.
In Maryland, the minimum age of leaving a child home alone is 8 years. Depending on the maturity of the child, I'd say that a 12 year old can be left home alone for the daytime, but overnight, the child should be at least 15.
Removing an uncontrollable 17-year-old from your home would depend on the laws in your state, which may vary from state to state. It's best to seek the advice of someone who knows your state laws before taking that action.
it is 14 year old
You can throw the child out if you would like to be slapped with a law suit and possibly put in jail for child abandonment. However when they turn 18 it is a different story.
If a 17-year-old refuses to come home, it's important to first try to understand the reasons behind their actions. Open communication and seeking professional help, such as counseling, can be beneficial in addressing underlying issues. It may also be necessary to involve authorities or child protective services to ensure the teen's safety and well-being.
Is your child of a selfish nature?
Forcing a 15 year old who has been driven away from home will likely make them want to run away again. The best thing you can do for them is wait for them to come home on their own time, and in the meantime, figure out what made them want to run away.
What year did destiny's child come together?
I think that whatever the reason is you need to help fix. If he does not want to go home don't make him. That is all you can do until you know the problem.
A parent can try to make their 17 year old come home at 10:00pm but the child can chose to do whatever they want.
No, unless they don't talk to their parents. If they talk to their parents then they are not a runaway.
Unless 16 is the legal age where you are, you are responsible for her unless she gets emancipated.
1995
Ummm, this is not ethical....IF and ONLY IF the child has been emanicpated
it came out in 1995