Why can't you and your girlfriend get along anymore if she doesn't think about what she is saying and then she gets mad at you because you get mad at her for what she said?

Answer 1

As a woman myself, I will admit woman can be hard to understand sometimes. The question is ... have you ever really listened to what you girlfriend is saying? I doubt it, because most men don't. It's important to listen to each other and if there is a problem in your relationship to be adult enough to try and sort it out. Communication is so important in a relationship.

On the other hand if your girlfriend is just cranky and it's not all the time it could be PMS (just before her periods) and woman can get pure bone ugly around this time. If she is always saying hurtful things to you she's just not happy in the relationship and it's up to you to sit her down and ask her what the problem is. If she's not willing then I'd walk away from the whole thing. Still, I just don't think most men listen to their mates enough.

I have discovered at my age ... 63) that most people get mad for all the wrong reasons. They could have had a bad day at school, work, are feeling a little depressed or worried about something, so instead of talking it out with their partner and let their feelings be known, they get ticked off about something else, but end up taking their anger out on their mate.

Try communicating with her and asking her why she is so angry all the time. If she's still isn't willing to try and communicate back, then tell her you've had enough and walk out that door!