An abusive person tends to remain abusive unless they make a real effort to change.
An abusive person will always be just that and no matter how much their new mate will agree with them they will still remain abusive.
Abusive people either come from a family of abuse, something has happened to them in their lives that they are extremely angry at, and there is always a reason for the way they are. Sometimes it just comes down to the point that person is miserable and loves controlling their mate because they cannot control life in general.
A relationship is about sharing each others dreams and opinions and the major one is respect. Neither mate should rule over the other, but share as best they can.
It's a catch-22. Abusers despise submissive and obsequious people. But they also demand automatic and full compliance with their wishes and instructions.
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C. Respectfully
It's called "making excuses" for that person. If the person is grouchy, bad mannered, swears around you, isn't respectful of you and you make excuses such as "Oh well, he/she could just be having a bad day" to "he/she really loves me and just sounds off like this around me because he/she loves and trusts me" are excuses! The guy has NO respect for you. Dare to be your own person and expect respect and having ANYONE in your life treat you as well as you treat them. These are signs of a person that doesn't have your best interests at heart: If the person makes dates and never shows up and then lies about it; If they are disrespectful of your family and friends. If they constantly swear around you and say little else. If they ignore what you have to say. If they make love to you and simply walk out the door without as much as a goodbye. If they flirt with the opposite sex or cheat. These are a but a few signs. The rule of thumb I lead my life by is, "if I treat others with respect and they don't treat me the same way I at least let them know how I feel and if they don't clean up their act then I kick them to the curb." Sometimes it really hurts my heart, but many times it's refreshing!
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For a man, he would not have the mother to be a good role model on how he should treat women. For the woman, she would not be able to have a mother to guide her in becoming a confident female. The effect of having an abusive maternal relationship could take years to sort through.
okay, this is my opinion... i think that person is just tryin to impress the "non-family" and it just keeps on and on so she can kinda be a part of the family....and i think that they do that so if the relationship gets even more like serious the person can have a good relationship with the families............... now that is just my opinion
1) If the person is abusive to you, 2) they treat everyone like dirt, 3) if they cheat on you
A relationship should be healthy, both physically and emotionally. It takes work but always love yourself and remember your own worth as a person who deserves to be treated with love and respect. If someone can't treat you the way you deserve to be treated than you are better off without them.
Treat her better then her boyfriend did and she will see you are a better person
Yes it can. If you see people being mistreated, you'll be motivated to be a better person who can be compassionate to others and treat them better.
Yes it is. Relationship is wonderful as long as you marry the right person and know the person well. Don't marry them if you only been dating for a couple months.
More than likely While some relationships are independently dysfunctional, a true abusive personality tend to take the same behavior from relationship to relationship, so the odds are good the he will treat his next partner the same way he treated you.
In my experience an abusive woman will increase the level of abuse in the relationship as long as the submissive husband tolerates it or allows it to go on. In my own case, I was conditioned to fear my wife and to accept all punishments. An abuser requires a spouse who is weak and submissive and takes the abuse.
The best way to keep a relationship is to treat the other person how you would like to be treated.
Abusive? No. Possibly desparate for a relationship and maybe a little obsessive, but unless he puts you down or you see him treat others like crap, he doesn't sound abusive.
this is a very short question, but assuming that you are asking this question because you feel 'unloved' in a relationship or maybe abused. Simple answer to your question is.. put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes, do you feel that you can treat another person the way he does to you? If the answer is NO, then he is just an abusive person who can't be fixed by you. Your best option in such cases is build a support system without him and eventually leave him.