You can't help what gender you are attracted to whether it is male, female or even both.
If you don't want to be a lesbian then maybe you just aren't accepting yourself for liking someone of the same sex as you are.
But, i guess if you truly don't like it you can start finding personality traits you like in someone you have been involved with or just plain like, and then find some guy friends who fit that and who knows maybe you might be attracted to him because you found more interests you found in him and maybe just maybe you two might be together :) The above answer, while excellent, is not quite complete. If you are very young (somewhere between 11 and 18) you may be going through a phase that many of your friends have done, are doing, or will do. Puberty is a difficult time for boys and girls. Wondering what sex is like, feeling the need to experiment, needing to keep your reputation and needing to not risk pregnancy, while being hammered all the time by your hormones which are turning on more and more, is not easy. One solution that many girls try is experimentation with girl-friends. It doesn't mean that you are a Lesbian; you will almost certainly graduate to boys when you have got some control over your emotions, and can do so reasonably safely. Until then, relax, enjoy and learn.
i dont want to help you. You should know the answer!!!!!!!!!!! i dont want to help you. You should know the answer!!!!!!!!!!!
No. You should not believe everything you hear. She is happily married to Jay-Z, and has always had an interest in men. Tabloids just want to sell magazines, and if they have to lie, they will be glad to do so!
No cus shes a lesbian any old thicko should know that
if you dont want to do it then DONT DO IT!EVEN IF YOUR FRIENDS ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE AT LEAST YOU DID THR RIGHT THING!
Hotaru isn't a lesbian.
i think you should see a doctor for help
ummmm stupid question i dont know and i dont want to knowwww
You dont just become a lesbian. Maybe you are just curious about what it is like to be with a same sex partner. Which is completely different.
If you are a lesbian and you want to come out to people then you should probably make sure that they are ok with it first.
Talk to her about it and discuss how the two of you want to live.
WELL IF SHE/HE WOULD TEASE YOU THEN THATS NOT A FRIEND!
Depeds on what they like and places the want to go. try the movies.
i am sory but i dont have a chose i dont want you anymore.
No, If you like girls ur a lesbian. If you dont ur not. There's no course you can take to become a lesbian.
Well if you sometimes feel attracted to women and at other times are attracted to men then perhaps you are bisexual. If you don't want anyone to know though, then you probably won't act on those feelings.
He probably cant but would have to, as he would no longer be your boyfriend i suppose! If you dont want to let him know just finish the relationship without mentioning the lesbian part and go and live your life from then on.
A lesbian can deny her sexuality, but there is no real "avoiding" it. Sexuality is an intimate part of who we are, and there is no switching sexualities. It is perfectly natural to not want to be a lesbian anymore, especially given the homophobic attitude that is so prevalent today, but one should celebrate who they are.