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You can't help what gender you are attracted to whether it is male, female or even both.

If you don't want to be a lesbian then maybe you just aren't accepting yourself for liking someone of the same sex as you are.

But, i guess if you truly don't like it you can start finding personality traits you like in someone you have been involved with or just plain like, and then find some guy friends who fit that and who knows maybe you might be attracted to him because you found more interests you found in him and maybe just maybe you two might be together :) The above answer, while excellent, is not quite complete. If you are very young (somewhere between 11 and 18) you may be going through a phase that many of your friends have done, are doing, or will do. Puberty is a difficult time for boys and girls. Wondering what sex is like, feeling the need to experiment, needing to keep your reputation and needing to not risk pregnancy, while being hammered all the time by your hormones which are turning on more and more, is not easy. One solution that many girls try is experimentation with girl-friends. It doesn't mean that you are a Lesbian; you will almost certainly graduate to boys when you have got some control over your emotions, and can do so reasonably safely. Until then, relax, enjoy and learn.

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