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How to perform a lap dance.It's sexy, it's fun, it's harmless, it's liberating and your partner will love it.Basic rulesAt no point during your entire performance is your partner allowed to touch you. You can touch, lick, rub and caress him all you want but play it cool. A slow seduction is a sure recipe for lap dancing success. The whole point of a lap dance is to drive a man crazy with anticipation and desire.You are in charge. Take your time, take control, and take pleasure in teasing him.If he reaches out in your direction or starts to grind back, slap his wrist and let him know that if he does it again, the dance is over, no exceptions.In order to perform and enjoy the lap dance you must feel comfortable with your body. You won't look sexy if you don't feel sexy. Accept and enjoy yourself regardless of your shape or size. Any woman can perform a great striptease or lap dance regardless of whether they're shy or feel their body is not the "perfect shape". It's all about attitude.Not all lap dancers have supermodel figures, they just behave like they do. This is your time to be seductive, to nurture and release your sensual spirit. Drop your inhibitions and throw caution to the wind. You are a sexy goddess.ClothingChoose an outfit that makes you feel hot and sexy and the rest will follow. There's a wide variety to choose from. From erotic dancewear to bras, panties, garter-belts, stockings, chemises, robes, teddies, swimsuits, club-wear, fetish-wear, oversized button-up shirts and so much more.The key is to build up a collection of layers that are easy to remove. Be daring, you're performing a tease, so a bit of flesh is essential.Start by selecting underwear first as these items will be the last to come off. A sexy bra, g-string, stockings (stay-ups are easier to work with) & perhaps suspenders.Panties should frame your cheeks while the back of your panties should reach too high over your cheeks. Try full bottomed panties, thongs, g-strings and booty shorts to see which works best for you. Panties that leave lines on your body after you take them off are probably too tight and should be avoided.Knee high or thigh high stockings worn with or without garters are a sexy addition to almost any outfit. Try a pair that's one size larger for easier movement. If you plan to keep your stockings and garter on for the duration of your dance, wear your panties on the outside of the straps so that they can be removed without having to unhook your garters.For the top layers, try little hot pants, an innocent sheer robe, sexy high-school teacher/student uniform, be a dominatrix, a desperate housewife or for something different, a classic red or black evening dress with some retro lingerie underneath.Avoid corsets or clothing that's too tight and difficult to slip out of. Clothing with zips at the back or many straps that take time to put on will of course be difficult to remove.For shoes, high heels & stilettos generally work best with any outfit. They make your legs look toned, sleek, and longer. Even if they're slightly uncomfortable, give them a try because you won't be wearing them for long anyway. If you can't walk in heels, rather wear something you're comfortable in. If all else fails in the shoe department, go barefoot and try the Barefoot Strut.Removing clothesRemove as much as you are comfortable with. You may choose to end up totally nude, topless, in sexy lingerie or remain fully clothed. Your lover however must remain fully clothed.If your choose shoes with buckles, consider how you'll remove your clothing without taking off your shoes. Stretchy clothing or flowing dresses can be taken off over your shoes, but check first. If all else fails in the shoe department, the bare-foot stripper strut (on your tip toes) is very hot.If you're doing it in heels, don't take them off (except to remove stockings). Perhaps put the heels back on once the stockings are off… Strapless shoes can be removed gracefully.If you chose something that needs to be removed by slipping it over your head, seductively slip it off by pulling it from the bottom on the sides while standing up tall, don't hunch over.A shirt with buttons can be a very sexy thing to remove. Play peek-a-boob with each side. When you've undone the last button, turn around posing at an angle, expose your one shoulder then the other and then let is slip down to the floor.Tight trousers or jeans can be difficult to remove. A pencil skirt can easily be unzipped and pushed down Do this while bending forward with your back or side to him and then step out of it. Skirts can be removed with your shoes and stockings on.Practice removing your stockings ahead of time. For extra balance (and teasing), place your toes between his legs or on the arm of his chair while you push the stockings down.Don't forget to tease. For beginners, take your time with each layer. Pull your skirt up or your underwear down a few inches before removing. Tuck a thumb or two into the sides of your trousers, skirt or underwear, lower the item of clothing slightly and tease.Push your bra straps off your shoulders before turning away to unclasp. A classic stripper routine is to hold the bra against your breasts, turn around with your back towards your man and drop your bra on the floor. Heat things up by keeping your arm and hand over your breasts then slowly turn around and slide your hand across and away from your breasts for a sexy reveal.When taking your bottoms off, try slipping them off over your shoes or bare feet while standing straight-legged. Do this by bending over from the waist and guiding them off all the way to the floor and then stepping out of them. If this isn't easy for you, try bending your knees or taking your bottoms off while lying on your back. Don't squat down too low…Don't get completely naked until the very end - and even then, tease him with a back view until he can't take it anymore.MusicSelect 2 or 3 sensual songs that you both enjoy. Think smooth and seductive. Avoid songs with high pitched vocals. The crooners and divas of the 60s are a good place to start if you want something romantic.A sensual rhythm or beat will guide you through your dance. It's best if you can relate to the music and feel comfortable moving to its beat.DurationStart by setting aside 2 or 3 songs.Song one is for the warm-up. This is your time to lead your partner to the chair, strut about, pose, explain the rules to your lover and begin to slowly ease into your seductive performance.Don't feel pressured to start at the beginning of the song, take your time, start when you're ready, walk around your lover, touch him, drag your fingers thru his hair and feel the beat.By setting aside a selection of 2 or 3 songs, you won't feel pressured to rush because the song is coming to an end. You're free to decide, short 'n sweet or long & languishing. You'll probably find yourself deep in the throws of passion by the end of it so consider choosing a dozen songs and enjoy the fun at the end.If possible, burn all the songs onto a CD or set them as a play-list on your i-pod. Don't stop to change CDs.Nervous beginnersFor beginners, you may want to start out by taking your time, work your way into a seductive groove. Close your eyes, feel the music, enter the trance and begin to sway.Try setting aside 30 minutes or so a day before to get familiar with your clothes, your body, the poses and the moves. Dance on your feet and on the floor. These may be things you've never done before. Try sliding down a wall and then back up. Walk around on the tips of your toes.On the floor, try opening and closing your legs or leaning your knees from one side to the other. Experiment with different angles. Sit on a chair. Caress your thighs, your neck, your belly your feet. Close your legs and then open them using your hands to part your thighs. Re-discover your body. Close your eyes if you're shy.Think of your dance as a Thai-chi or yoga session at the gym. Slow movements and a general sense of well-being without all the painful stretching.Eye contact.Seduce your lover with passionate looks. Your expression will reflect those sexy thoughts you have in mind and intensify the sexual tension in the air. Look at your body, touch it, enjoy it and then look at your lover drawing his eyes to yours and to your body.Maintain eye contact at all times. If your back is turned to your partner, glance over your shoulder.AccessoriesAdd a few accessories to your dance routine, items that you enjoy playing with. You're doing this for your pleasure too.A blindfold will help keep your lover's senses alert - itching to know what will come next.A pair of handcuffs or a silky scarf can be used to keep your lover's hands down if he breaks the no touching rule.Use a soft feather to brush up against your lover's body or yours. Sit on a chair and while holding your body upright and tall, slide your feet and legs apart and slowly brush yourself from your neck to the inside of your thigh.If you're wearing a button up shirt, consider also wearing a tie. Loop it around his neck to pull him closer to your face or cleavage or tie his hands up with it if he breaks the no touching rule.If you're the kind of girl that likes it naughty, have your favourite toy at hand for your pleasure and tease.Tease him with a shawl or a silky wrap or use it to cover up if you feel more comfortable being a little less exposed.Enjoy a few sips of wine or a cocktail to help melt away the nerves. Let your partner have a sip or as much as you decide to let him have, since you're in charge.Use your hair. While standing up, kneeling, or sitting, stretch your torso while you pull your hair up and let it fall again. Use it to brush up against him.Use an ice cube from your cocktail. Place a cube in your mouth and run it along your lover's body or brush it across your nipples to set them firm.Your lips and your eyes are powerful seduction accessories. Try the classic pout or smile. Play with facial expressions.With a bit of practice, a hat, scarf, cane or rider's crop can be used in sexually seductive ways.Use your surroundings. Lean your back against a wall and writhe, or slide down into a squat and up again. Use a spare chair. Straddle it backwards or sit in it sideways to remove your stockings with pointed foot in the air, one at a time.Imagine your hands are his hands. Touch yourself where he touches you.Setting the sceneCreate the perfect atmosphere. Dim the lights, perfume the air and light some candles. Mix candle light with floor lamps or fairy lights. Candle light adds a soft, warm glow to your body. Indirect lighting is both flattering and more intimate. Avoid fluorescent or white LED lights.See that your room temperature is comfortable - feeling too cold or too hot will distract you.Turn off all possible distractions - TV and mobile phones etc.Clear the space where you'll be dancing so you don't bump into anything.Check that the chair your lover will be sitting on can accommodate the both of you. Sit on it and imagine yourself in his position and then you on his lap.ChecklistRemind yourself how sexy you are;Select your outfit, make-up & hairstyle;Prepare your music compilation;Select your props;Decide where you'll be dancing and have prepare the space;Practice the routine (or at least the tricky parts);Believe in both your inner and outer beauty;Be sassy and be proud of yourself. It's all about confidence and attitude;You feel great, look great and you're going to leave your lover begging for mercy.Unleash yourself.The invitationSend him a seductive text message or e-mail with a cryptic clue of what's to come later in the evening. The invitation will set his mind alight and prolong the torture across an entire day. Alternatively, spring it on him as a surprise. Either way, you'll need to spend a some time setting the scene and calming your nerves if it's your first time.Step oneStart the music and lead your lover to the chair. Have him sit with his legs closed.Start by staring him straight in the eye with a teasing smile on your face. Walk around your lover, touch him, drag your fingers through his hair and feel the beat. Strut about, pose, explain the rules to your lover and begin to slowly ease into your seductive performance.Set the mood and let him know you're in charge.Alternate between looking at him and looking down at your body, touching yourself as you move your hands down or across your body.Run your fingers through your hair, down your neck, your chest then down to your hips and around your ass.As you move your hands across your body imagine your hands are his hands. Enjoy the touch of your (his) hands on your body.Keeping your hands in contact with your body let them ride up your sides and back towards the nape of your neck. Look him in the eye and try a slow and gentle head roll (head falls forward and then rolls back up), letting your hair fall at the same time.Then try a few hip circles. Move towards him so your crotch is almost against his knee then lean in like you're going to kiss him for just long enough that he can smell your perfume then pull away.The key element of a lap dance is to tease, tease and tease again.Turn your back to your partner, move your ass towards his lap, then slowly grind into your desperate lover. Remember, no touching. By now the tension will be rising and this is your cue to drift away.Begin your routine… Let the seduction begin.A suggested lap dance and stripping routine.Stand several steps in front of your partner. Think sexy and feel sexy. Begin moving your hips to the music in a soft circular motion. Close your eyes for a few seconds and enjoy the moment. There's no-one around, just you and your lover.Take your time, then, slowly step towards your partner, one foot in front of the other, cat-walk style. When you're near enough, take your lap dance to the next level.The mountTry the lap dance grind, swaying between your partner's legs, bumping and grinding your body against his crotch. Turn around and position yourself between your lover's legs. Bend down to sit on his lap and grind your bottom slowly (and gently) into his lap.The teaseMove away, pose and begin removing an item of clothing. Top first...Take your time and do it slowly. Try facing your lover at an angle. Reveal your shoulders or lift up your shirt just an inch to reveal your navel.Maintain eye contact.Slowly run your hands over your body. Caress yourself. Play with a prop or accessory.The teasing isn't over yet…Seductively and gradually remove another item or two of clothing (perhaps your skirt or hot-pants) then move back towards your partner again.Get so close you'll practically be sitting on your lover's lap. Sensually lean in towards your lover's ear breathing your hot breath over it, let out a soft aching moan. Softly nibble or brush against his neck, breathing your lover in as if you were getting high off their scent.Give him another grind before moving away again.Your sexy dance is about to get hotter...Try a few seductive floor moves. Keep eye contact and keep caressing yourself from different angles and perspectives.Move into the crawl and then mount him again for another grinding session.You're torturing him…Take a few steps back and seductively and gradually begin removing another item of clothing.Slink in between his open legs and lower yourself until you're right in front of his firmly erect love handle. Flicker your tongue above it. Rub it up and down but just for a second.If you're still wearing clothes, move back again and seductively remove another item. Remember the 3 golden rules: He's not allowed to touch you and remember to work it slow and tease, tease, tease.Use your accessories, tie him up, put your foot on his thigh, part your legs, touch yourself, have some fun at his craving expense.Don't forget.Throughout your lap dance, continue caressing yourself and don't stay too close to your partner for too long. Move away for brief moments. Remember that eye contact is very important. Let your eyes transmit all those sexy thoughts and don't forget to smile.The grand finale…If you decide to go completely naked then turn around, bend over and run your hands over your bottom. Move your sweet peach just inches away from his face. Suck your finger, imagining it's his throbbing member, squeeze your nipples and stroke your yearning v-gina - slowly and passionately. Your man will be burning with desire but remember the number one rule - no touching, no matter how much he begs. Tie him up if you must.Then finally, whether you're completely naked or semi clothed, take a victory lap around the chair. You've seduced him, his knees have melted and he's putty in your hands. Caress yourself and plan your next move…If you're feeling a little bit naughty and cruel, move back towards him like you're about to take him with all the passion you can muster but instead lean over him, kiss him on the cheek, move back and gracefully put your clothes back on. Then move on to another part of the house or go for a walk. You may have to run...A happy ending.Try it a few times with different outfits, routines and music and you'll soon become an expert in the sexiest dance of all. The possibilities are endless and the results are always great.The art of erotic movement.Seductive HipsMove them slowly from side to side rotating occasionally into a front and back motion.Throughout your routine think about where your hips are. They are the base of every movement, every gesture, and every suggestion. Keep them moving.As you move your hips side to side, put your arms up in the air and cross your wrists. It will push out your chest and it's a great stretch.The Stripper StrutBack arched, breasts out, on you tip-toes or wearing stiletto heels, walk slowly pointing your toes whenever your foot is not on the floor. Every time you lift a foot, bend it back and up before placing it down in front of you again.Try placing one foot directly in front of the other each time you step, like a cat-walk model but slowly.Practice walking around like this and discover how it makes you feel taller, more dominant, in control and sexy.After you've taken four or five steps in one direction, you may want to pause and pose with one or both hands on your hips and look into his eyes.Tip: whenever you place a hand on your hip, make sure the tips of your fingers are pointing upwards and your wrist is down so that the hand and wrist together form a 'V' shape. This forces your shoulders back, elongates your torso and creates a beautiful hourglass effect.The Stripper Strut  BarefootIf you're dancing barefoot or once you've removed your shoes, try the barefoot stripper strut.Walking on your tip-toes helps you attain the same physical effect as wearing the shoes making your legs look longer, slimmer and more toned. Strutting on your tip-toes forces your chest out, arches your back and with the added bonus of giving your calves a work-out as you walk.Stripper and Lap Dance PosesStand slightly at an angle and turn your head towards him. An angled profile in soft light is very flattering. Hollywood movie stars strike this type of pose at film premiers for a reason.When you're starting a routine, keep your legs together when posing, sending a playful message of 'hard to get'. As you work through your routine, you can begin to spread 'em wider and wider.When you lean in towards him, cross your arms over your chest, gently pushing your breasts together to create extra cleavage. Your breasts will appear rounder and more abundant with a little pressure from your forearms.For a perspective he'll enjoy, lean forward towards him, feet together, hands on knees and your arms straight.Trace a body part with your finger tips - your thighs, stomach, opposite arm and breasts.The BendBend your upper body over by resting your hands on your thighs and bending down from your hips. Try making a slow circle with your bottom before turning your head so that you're looking back at him.With your hands on his thighs, squat down between his thighs then turn around 180 degrees and stand up pointing your buttocks at his line of view.On the FloorRun your toes along the floor slowly, watching them (and then him) as you move.On your side use an elbow to prop your head up and run your hand down the side of your body, over your hip and onto your top leg.From the side pose, roll onto your back and create and bend your back into an arch so that the only parts in contact with the floor are your shoulder blades and bottom.From the arched back pose, lower yourself down again, stretch out your legs if front of you, Lift your legs straight up in the air with your toes pointed out and spread your legs into a split for a sneak peak of your…With your back on the floor, bend your knees, point your toes and raise them off the floor and tilt them from left to right keeping them closed.On your side and lift one leg up in the air with toes pointed then bend your leg and bring it back down onto or in front of the leg that lying on the floor creating an open space between your legs.While on the floor, continue to keep eye contact with your partner and take the time to caress or even play with yourself.Sweet CaressesTouch yourself. Imagine that your hands are your lover's hands. Think about where he might like to put them, drawing attention to your favorite parts and erogenous zones all the while, keeping eye contact with your lover.Slowly run your hands over your hips around your breasts, up your neck, through your hair and down the side of your face.Use one hand to fondle your crotch and the other to run across your chest, or run fingers through your hair looking up at him with your chin pointed down slightly to accentuate those big gorgeous eyes.Switch from touching your body to his. Run your hands down the side of his face and through his hair. Press your palm against his chest, brush the side of his arms.Caress his thighs, from the knees to the start of his groin. Part his legs and then close them again.Run your finger tips across the back of his neck when walking around him.The Hind GrindPart your lover's legs open then and stand with your back to him and your feet together. Make sure you're as close to the chair as possible. Bend your knees, keep your back straight, and lower your bottom towards his crotch so you can feel his aching member against your butt. Put your hands on his knees for support and grind down gently. Rub into him by tilting our pelvis like you're dry humping him. You're in control so use him for your pleasure. If possible, look over your shoulder as you do this.Close his legs and turn around with your back towards him. Open your legs slightly and sit down on his lap. Hook your feet under the chair for balance if required. Lean back onto his chest and run a hand along the outer side of his face.As you do this, turn and look at him, move your face in nice and close, part your lips and make like you're going to kiss him, but don't.Another grind technique is to sit on his lap facing him. Arch your back and place your hands on the backrest of the chair. Use the backrest as leverage and grind your bottom into his desperate nether region.The CrawlCrawling can begin either right at his feet with your hands running up his calves and onto his thighs, or a few feet away for a more dramatic effect.Move slowly, seductively, and sensually through the movement. Keep your back arched and let your hair fall down naturally.At his feet, move your hands up his calves, over his knees and onto his thighs. Push his legs together and push down on his legs to bring yourself onto him in one flowing motion to end with your back arched and your chest out.Another way to crawl up is to slide your hands between his legs, parting them and ending dangerously close to his goods for before lifting yourself up.The next step is to prop yourself up at eye level with him by placing both hands down on either side of his legs then one hand at a time, lift your arms and place one hand on either side of his head against the back of the seat.Rest one of your knees between his knees on the chair and push the other leg back for support then arch your back and raise your bottom into the air.Your chest will be in his face, and your mouth next to his neck or ear, fake like you're going to kiss him or breathe a hot breath against his neck before pulling away.Swing one leg around to the outer edge of the chair or on the outer side of his leg on the couch.Bring the leg that's kneeling between his thighs over to the outer side as well to mount him. You're in now in a position of total dominance above him. Enjoy it.He is going to want to touch you but he is absolutely not allowed. Enforce the rule if he tries and move away if you must.From this position you can move into the hind grind or a more advanced lap dance move of your choice.A few classic lap dance and stripping songsPrince - CreamPrince - PeachMadonna - Justify My LoveGwen Stefani - LuxuriousJustin Timberlake - What Goes Around Comes Around / My LoveNine Inch Nails - CloserTimbaland - The Way I AreBeyonce - Freakum DressKylie Minogue - ChocolateWhite Stripes - I just don't know what to do with myselfGoldfrapp - Ooh La LaKyuss - Gloria LewisJimi Hendrix - Hey JoeJoe Cocker - You Can Leave Your Hat OnDepeche Mode - Personal Jesus

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