She won't "commit" to anything -- not the new relationship, anyway. Narcissists have several short term relationships. They can't commit. They can get married. They can have significant others. They just can't commit or have normal relationships. This new one will fail, also. Unfortunately there is now a child involved. Whether she will seek you out again or not depends on the length of this new relationship and how you both left the end of your relationship. My "N" wanted to keep the door open and I basically told him in no uncertain terms that I didn't want to know him anymore and haven't heard from him since. If you're secretly hoping she'll return, don't. You were set free. At some point you'll see that and thank your luck stars for it. If she does contact you, be strong. Its not you she's after. Its your supply. Don't fall for it. Very few narcissists ever get better. ~ T
I doubt it because they would probably no longer be a supply...They are only interested in those that can be manipulated and exploited again and again.
A narcissist will stay away as long as he has other supply to entertain him and keep him from getting bored. When they either lose that supply or begin to grow tired of him or her, then they often seek out "old supply" before cultivating new supply again. It is far easier for the narcissist to get back in touch with an ex in order to quickly get NS. Remember, narcissists cannot stand not having supply. They'll do anything to get it and fast. They'll use ex's or old supply to bridge the gap between the supply they just lost and the one they will soon meet.
The narcissist only wanted needed you to supply their need at that time. Now they have the contract job they don't have a need for you until you have something else that they want that is when they will need you again. If you don't have anything they want to nourish their narcissist supply the have no problem writing you off and forgetting that you ever existed. They have no empathy RUN do not stay in contact with them they will destroy you.
No. He may contact you if he tires of the old supply or if the old supply wises up and leaves him, and he doesn't have new supply lined up yet. Of course, if you take him back, it's a matter of time until he leaves again.
The narcissism probably can't be, but your feeling of being devalued can--first by cutting off contact with the narcissist. Also, the narcissist will value you again, but only if they want supply from you...they are like alcoholics but your attention is the drug of choice - but only if they aren't busy with some other secondary supply -and if they are you have to wait on the shelf until they want to use you again.
If a narcissist has a crisis he/she probably is short of narcissistic supply at the moment. Any supply serves to build up his ego, even conflict. As soon as he/she finds another source he/she will evaporate again.
What is the usage of the term "narcissist" and how does it reflect upon this situation. I do not understand. nar
Ignore them again and again until they ask u what's wrong keep your answer short then run.
Nothing. You can't get pregnant again.
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Yes it will until he/she makes sure they can't get anything anymore from you , and than if you don't respond , and keep strong with your decision not to be in touch, they will look for replacement immediately also.
Tell him to go and leave you alone.