Why not?
Best to set up a separate bank account to route these thru in order not to be accused of intermingling funds. Any bank can help you with this. Any donation, no matter the payee can be deposited into the account when endorsed.
An obituary placed by the family (or anyone) is a form of free speech- like all speech, it entails a certain amount of responsibility and carries repercussions. You can tell people not to send flowers and do ten push-ups and three squat thrusts while singing the national anthem for all it matters. If what you are asking is: "Is it 'proper' to ask for money?" - it's better to tell people directly NOT to waste money on flowers, etc. especially if that is the wish of the deceased.
"Lieu of flowers" in an obituary means that the family is requesting that instead of sending flowers for the funeral, mourners can make a donation to a specified charity or cause in memory of the deceased. It is a way for family members to honor their loved one's memory through charitable giving.
The flowers are fresh
laying flowers on veterans' graves.
The origin of wreath laying came on Anzac Day. It was the gift of flowers at a memorial site. It is know as Memorial Day now.
Red roses, bells of Ireland on the casket
write there feelings down bring gifts and flowers to memorial/grave
A person could buy flowers from a local floral shop or from a local supermarket that has a floral department. There are always ways that you can order flowers for any special event online.
when flowers were placed all over union and confederate graves in Arlington National Cemetery
An obituary usually has a picture of the person who died and then there will be a paragraph next to the picture. On the obituary in the paragraph it might say leui instead of saying you can give the money to whoever the money/will is going to.
Of course! Flowers are always appreciated at Mormon funerals and memorials. It is also becoming increasingly popular to donate money to a charity that the deceased would have supported and send a card saying that in lieu of flowers you donated money to that charity in their honor.
Julius Caesar. He had all ready made himself Caesar when he was attacked. The site where he died still exists and flowers are placed there even today. His body was cremated.
You can but you don't have to. I would because people like flowers and it seems like the right thing to do but if you don't nobody will hate on you and most likely people will bring flowers so you don't have to worry if you do or don't. Hope this helped :)