ama de casa
¿Puedo quedarme en casa?
Mama y Papa se casa pronto - Mom and dad will be home soon
Quédate en casa conmigo.
Answer: Quedate en casa
It depends on your upbringing and perspective. Homemaker is a classical title that is an accurate description of a caretaker of the home that may or may not have children. If you are proud of your status of being a stay at home parent and want to communicate that you have children and also take care of the home then the second title would be best. (Personally the term stay at home in "stay at home mom", sounds like playing hooky and on some level it makes me cringe.) As an alternative perhaps you could say "homemaker and mother of 4", or however many children you have.
Mother in Spanish is madre, or mama.Madre, or Mama (mom)
"the mom" is "la madre" or "la mamá".
quedarse en
Esta es mi madre.
Tú no eres mi madre.
casa is how you say home in spanish.(for example) Nos vamos a la casa.
Both are hard, but working moms have 2 jobs, the outside the home job and the full time mom job at home---no matter what the men say!