In Oregon, there is no specific age at which a child can unilaterally refuse to visit a non-custodial parent. However, as children grow older, their preferences may be taken into consideration by the court, particularly around the ages of 13 and older. Ultimately, decisions regarding visitation should ideally involve communication between parents and may require legal intervention if disputes arise. It is advisable for parents to consult with a family law attorney for guidance specific to their situation.
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Generally, not until the child is 18.
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A child can make that decision at the age of 18.
14 years of age
When they are 16, that is also when they can move out if they have a good place to stay.
15 is the real age to make legal decisions. Not all, just most.
18. Until that age, the court order must be followed (and I'm assuming there is a court order for visitation). The child does not have the option of refusing. If there is a *legitimate* reason that the child does not want to have contact with the parent, then the custodial parents needs to go back to court and request that the court order be modified.
The courts cannot force an absent parent to visit the child[ren].