Did your wife cheat if she went out with her girlfriends and came home late with her friend and told you that she had a good time and danced with some guy on a slow dance?

Answer 1

Yes, women can cheat just like men, but it doesn't sound like your wife did. She was honest with you. However, it bothers me that this is coming up so much later in your marriage and could it be time for both of you to sit down and communicate your feelings to each other? In my 40s I use to go to the odd "Male strip club" with a bunch of my girlfriends. It was the in thing back then. After the entertainment was over the men standing outside could come into the club. I am sure some of these men thought all the girls would be hot to trot after seeing all those handsome young men performing, but not true with all us gals. Then dancing started and men would ask you to dance. Yes, I got up and danced, but if advances were made towards me for more than just a dance I made it loud and clear I was married! You see, you can put a mate into any sort of situation with the opposite sex and it's the intelligence and loyalty that makes that particular person have the fun, but go no further and remain loyal to their mate. I think your wife was loyal to you. Don't waste time worrying about it.