She wasn't sure if he was also angry at her, thinking that she had doubted him or been unfaithful as she was, apparently, actively seeking a different husband.
Because she didn't know if it was actually him, people came to her all the time with lies about Odysseus
The wooers in the Odyssey were a group of suitors trying to win the hand of Penelope, Odysseus' wife, in his absence. They took over his palace, consumed his resources, and behaved disrespectfully towards Penelope and Telemachus. Ultimately, they were defeated by Odysseus upon his return.
she has to weave a robe for Odysseus
It has already happened. Odysseus and his son kill them all.
Penelope
she has to weave a robe for Odysseus
Penelope
From the passage, it can be concluded that none of the wooers appeal to Penelope, as she does not show interest in any of them. Penelope's lack of trust in the nurse does not necessarily imply trust in the beggar, and there is no evidence given to suggest that only one of the wooers appeals to Penelope.
By the time her son went out to find his father Odysseus, she had been putting of the wooers for three, almost four years.
The news was delivered to Penelope by Eurycleia, the loyal nurse who recognized Odysseus by a scar on his leg while washing his feet. She confirmed his return and the defeat of the suitors.
In Homer's "Odyssey," it is Telemachus, Odysseus's son, who informs Penelope of Odysseus's return. After slaying the suitors who have been vying for Penelope's hand, Telemachus reveals his father's triumph and assures her that Odysseus has reclaimed his rightful place in their home. This revelation brings Penelope a mix of joy and disbelief, as she has been yearning for her husband's return for many years.
Some of the kinfolk of the wooers in "The Odyssey" attempted to kill Odysseus upon his return to Ithaca. They plotted to confront him and eliminate him as a threat to their pursuit of Penelope. However, they underestimated Odysseus, who ultimately outsmarted and defeated them. This conflict highlights themes of justice and retribution in the epic.