Why is difficult to agree to disagree?

Answer 1

Often, when an issue is very important to someone, they naturally want others to agree with them.

- They may want the sense of validation that comes with being agreed with.

- They may be looking for a sense of solidarity and connection with others.

- They may believe that their opinion is in peoples' best interests, and therefore people should agree with their opinion.

- They may not have ever considered that others' opinions are equally valid.

And then, there are times where it would seem that agreeing to disagree is impossible. In these cases, conflict or compomise must result. Example:

Bear A: "This good fishing spot is mine."

Bear B: "I disagree. This good fishing spot is actually mine."

Bear C: "I disagree with both of you. It's actually mine."

If they don't compromise and share the fishing spot, the bears are probably going to come to blows.

Answer 2

It may be challenging to agree to disagree because individuals may have strong emotions or beliefs tied to their opinions. They may also feel that compromising or accepting different viewpoints threatens their own beliefs or values. Additionally, societal pressure or a desire to be "right" can make it difficult for some people to accept differing perspectives.