Are humans better than you expect?

Answer 1

Yes and no. Since this question calls for opinions, here's mine. There are times when human behavior truly disappoints me: some people can be petty, rude, impatient, and judgmental; they seem ready to argue about ridiculous things, and they seem unwilling to welcome those who are different from them. But there are also times when human behavior makes me proud: I have encountered many people who are compassionate and caring. I have seen total strangers go out of their way to help someone in need. I have encountered people who are ready with a kind word (or a hug) if they see that someone is going through a difficult time, and I know many people who try their very best to be understanding and welcoming.

The point is that human beings are just that-- human. They make mistakes. They are not perfect. They have good days, and they have bad days. That is why I don't expect humans (including myself) to always say and do the right thing. Nor do I expect humans to only show positive qualities. I guess my hope is that even when human beings behave badly, they can learn from their mistakes and do something better the next time, something kinder or more courteous. In other words, I refuse to give up on humanity, even when life seems to be heading in the wrong direction-- because I wouldn't want others to hold my flaws against me, I try very hard not to hold their flaws against them. I have seen people change and I have seen even supposedly hopeless situations improve. And just when you think you've seen people at their worst, someone comes along and restores your faith in human nature. So, yes sometimes human beings are better than I might expect, and at other times they really depress me. But I truly believe that every day is a new beginning; you just never know which kinds of behaviors you are going to encounter today.