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T do expensive shoes have to do with self-esteem?
Expensive shoes have nothing to do with a persons self esteem,if that's the case there would be hundred of thousands of people that would have low self esteem. Material things are not that important,yes they do help but,not needed to be truly happy. Our civilization has ruined our child by trying to give them everything they want,then when they are grown and can't achieve material things as they are used to getting from parents and other relatives they are unhappy adults. Its all about me nowadays. And it seems that it causes these so call young adults not to be able to get out on their own,in so they end up living with their parents in the downstairs basement and/or borrowing money every week to have money for gas to get to work because they have gone out and over spent on material things. We need to teach out children the value of money and how to get along without spending on eating out and buying material things that they just throw in the corner after a few days.
What are symptoms of passive aggressive abuse?
Here are some ways of identifying the problem -- and the way it starts is always the same.. they start to make unkind comments, and then tell you it is a joke or cover it up to make you devalue yourself 1. Passive-aggressive people rarely take a stand. At first they seem very diplomatic and easy to get along with. They never argue and may even seem eager to please. But that's all a front. They don't keep promises, and even if they verbally agree with you, they will do what they want or complain about you behind your back. Or, they will simply shuffle along, and will only act if they are under extreme pressure-like when you finally yell at them or give an ultimatum. 2. Passive-aggressive people are forgetful. It's very difficult to trust or rely on passive-aggressive people. They conveniently forget what they don't want to do. Or, they "punish" you by dropping the ball on an important responsibility, and then apologize profusely so you feel guilty about being disappointed or angry. People also use passive-aggressive behavior if they have trouble dealing with pressure. Instead of asking for help, or setting boundaries and saying no, they agree to everything but do nothing. 3. Passive-aggressive people like to blame others. As far as they're concerned, everything is everybody else's fault. If they can't keep a job, it's because 'the boss was crazy" or "my wife wasn't supportive enough" or "my co-workers were out to get me." They see no reason to change their actions and have no motivation to look for alternatives or opportunities. In fact, passive-aggressive people also tend to carry a lot of resentment and anger ("everyone else ruined my life!") and like to "punish" others for what happened to them. They also put a lot of pressure on others. As they throw a pity party for themselves, you're expected to pick up the slack or to make them feel good about themselves. They can also be very critical, because they prefer seeing the faults of others over admitting their own. 4. Passive-aggressive people suppress feelings. Many of them were raised to hide their feelings. Maybe they were punished when they got angry, or told to "stop crying and act like a man." So they suppress their real emotions, and have a tendency to either suddenly blow up or to get back at you in subtle ways. For example, a wife may not confront her husband about his cheating, but will quietly undermine his relationship with the kids. 5. Passive-aggressive people are afraid commitment and dependency. They are often control freaks. They don't want to admit that they need you or care about you, and usually sabotage relationships. For example, they will find reasons to break up with people, or use ways to retain control over a relationship (such as withholding money, sex or approval) so they don't feel dependent on others. 6. Passive-aggressive people are insensitive to others' needs. Healthy relationships are based on give-and-take, but for passive-aggressive people it's "all about me." They may say "I love you" and appear to be compassionate and concerned, but they either forget to follow through, or continue behavior that they know will upset you, or they make you very, very aware of the "sacrifice" they're making. "Oh, I didn't go to the conference, which could've really helped my career, and I probably won't get the promotion, but that's what you want, right?" 7. Passive-aggressive people procrastinate. They figure out that if they wait long enough, you'll give up and stop bothering them, or youu'll forget the promise they made. They also use procrastination as a way of ignoring problems or avoiding fears. For example, they may find ways to put off a project because they're afraid of failure, or they'll wistfully talk about their dreams but not actually go for them because they want to continue blaming you for "holding them back."
Why are some people assassinated and others murdered what importance do you need for that?
You almost sound jealous or worried that you won't be assassinated. Well anyways to understand the difference let's look at the etymology or origin of the word first to get a better understanding .The word 'assassination' (sometimes accredited to Shakespeare) comes from the Old French word 'assassis', hashish eaters who committed murder. The Italian word 'assassino' originally meant hashish eater but eventually came to mean murderer. In Arabic the word hashshashin , again literally, meant hashish eater, in reference to a religious and military order located chiefly in the mountains of Lebanon. Those hashish eaters were noted for carrying out secret murders in blind obedience to their leader, a condition brought on because the members selected to commit a murder, especially of a king or public figure, were first intoxicated with hashish. The term as we now use it still refers chiefly to a murder of a public figure.To put it in more simple terms anyone of importance that can make a large change (especially in a country) for the good (usually) is a threat and therefore they are assassinated. Assassination and murder are the same thing. Example: John F. Kennedy was killed because he and his brother Bobby Kennedy had the guts to go against the mob, hold off (mind bending technique and a smart one) with the Cuban Missile Crisis and did many more things. They truly were for 'the people' and that meant they were stepping on too many toes and those that would lose their positions and power, careers ruined and less money would be involved not to mention graft! Martin Luther King, Jr., was assassinated because he dared, as a black man to try to bring people together for peace. He was considered a threat. Some actors are murdered because the fan wants them all to themselves, or, they feel betrayed by not getting the attention they feel they deserve from that actor. Re female actors when murdered the fan that has murdered them has an obsession with them.
Addiction in the US?
Addiction for people that have never gone through just can't understand what it is like, thats no offence to anyone! People that haven't gone through it sometimes think that it's easy, if you really want to then "just go get help" "ring a help line" "see your doctor" and it's no where near as simple as that! No drug addict, gambler or alcoholic etc enjoy being addicted, nor saw it as there future calling and life plan or look forward to satisfying there addiction everyday. You ask any addict and they will all say the same "It's ruined my life" so if it was that simple to 'just get help and to take that step' there would be no addicts! I see addiction as a behavioural and mental health problem brought on from either depression, anxiety, stress, getting struck by a bomb at some point in your life and was struggling to cope and needed a release! In all my experience I don't see "pear pressure" or being around it or a ladder where you start smoking a bit of weed as the main causes and I think believing this is the reason why the majority of addicts relapse and find it hard to step forward and get help then stick with it! You can not treat the symptoms without treating the cause! I'm a canine behaviourist and if I didn't get o the route of the problem then the symptoms in a dogs case thats bad and unwanted behaviour, could no be resolved and corrected! It's no different with addiction there's always a cause and thats the underline issue of the symptoms which hear is using drugs/ drinking etc. The whole way addicts/ addiction is currently dealt with needs squashing and a whole new fresh look and the way we treat it needs to be taken!
Working with difficult people?
Try to avoid them as much as possible but when you do run into them be polite and treat them with respect. Good luck! ANSWER You CAN'T avoid difficult people because they seek out situations that can provoke a reaction. Also, since it's usually their problem, why should you be bothered by it? Think about it this way: they will go home and it will have ruined their day, but you can go home and say, "I met this loser today" and still have a good night with your family It's usually issues with self-control, past anger from helplessness, and/or past resentment, so keep in mind its a problem stemming from another problem, which problems usually do, (so have an air of sympathy for them and their situation). Therefore, I would advise you not to argue or call them names, because not only will this make the situation worse, but it makes you a nicer person if you don't and consider what actually makes them like this. They may not even realise they are actually angry or difficult so keep your voice calm, try to help as much as possible, helpfulnes will make a difference, even if you know you are only pretending to be helpful, its the illusion that will help. Listen to what they are saying, their concerns, even their shouting, but don't take any serious threat to your safety (if you feel really threatened, get help). Try not to say early on, "stop shouting" or "you're being unreasonable", because this draws attention to their flaws and at that point can make them worse, and don't say you are being always say you seem, "being" is an aggressive and absolute word, seem is a possibility and explains you may be misunderstanding their attitude and they may calm down. But maybe say, "you're going to have to be patient with me here" because no one wants to think they are not patient and they want YOU to be the unreasonable one Don't be sympathetic when they get really bad, because this only fuels their victimization of themselves and gives them full permission to be acting this way. Say "you're scaring me, so can you please stop" no one wants to be scaring everyone, that feels horrible, and "I can't help you when you are shouting at me" (obviously as long as they ARE shouting) Try not to be repetitive, because it seems like you are not listening not taking what they are saying seriously and not trying to actually help them Being reasonable is a must, because that was one of my worst problems: people who you just cant reason with. I would see red when people did that, so you can actually help them and you by being as reasonable as you can until they get really bad. They may feel cornered, as if they have no other option, so try to give more options, but if that's not possible call someone higher than you, not only does it seem you are doing something to help but it puts the duty on the higher person, not nice but makes your life easier. Don't argue back it IS what they want, and you'll notice if you're always calm they actually get angrier, because they want you to react so badly so it can then be a full blown thing to get their anger out and YOUR fault. If they seemed reasonable, and then got angry, it could just be a misunderstanding so go over what you said, find what the problem is and why it can't be fixed, and be sure to be as helpful as you can You can't fix them and they will probably be like that until THEY see their own difficulty themselves and admit they have a problem and decide to change it. All you can do is try to make sure it doesn't hurt you. They are their own responsibility and their family's responsibility to deal with and don't let them drag you down. Be courteous and succinct. Do not linger around them. Do not fight back (as this will only egg them on to be more critical or nasty). Take the high road and spend little time around them (except when they are not being so difficult). If its a continuous problem and too much to take on board. Best to leave them alone. be civil. If it is a friend, colleague, boyfriend and family. They will be clarified problematic individual with anxious and anger issues they need to address to someone who are more trained professional health carers who will assist them with their needs. In other case they need to rectify the problem themselves. If it is client and profession their is no need. Pay pack money in bank account.
What if you went out with a guy and it ruined your friend relationship but he says he still wants you but you avoid him and he doesnt talk to you but stares at you a lot what's going on?
You obviously need to talk this out with him. When you said it "ruined your friend relationship", did you mean it ruined your relationship as friends with him, or with your other friends? If the relationship ruined your friendship with your other friends, something is wrong. You need to talk it out with your friends and your guy and figure out what's bothering them. But remember, a guy shouldn't come between you and a friend. I know that theory's not always good advice, but if he is causing issues, the best way to solve them is to talk them out. Hope I helped.
Why is ava mad at me?
Shes mad because i ruined her relationship.
Why are friendships ruined when they sleep with each other?
Its because they cant always stay together, when they think they are in love, and the make love sometime it helps the relationship between friends or couples or it just destroys it.
When Adam fell he ruined his relationship to?
Christians hold that when Adam ate the forbidden fruit, he ruined not only his own relationship with God, but also the relationship of all mankind until Jesus died on the cross to atone for this cosmic sin. Jews generally disagree and hold that no person is held accountable before God for any sins that they did not commit, and that all people are born sinless.
What are fool-prof ways to get your ex girlfriend back?
There are no "fool-proof" ways. You just try and if she does not want to then you must move on and let her be.
Is it fine to date your best friend?
yes, but I wouldn't do it. I just was in a relationship with my best friend, it didnt work out and we broke up and it almost ruined our friendship
Can you give me a sentence with ruined in it?
sentence for ruined
What is a sentence using interracial?
This refers to anything between different races. Here are some sentences.Interracial tension ruined the pep rally.They had an interracial town meeting to discuss prejudice.My friends have an interracial marriage.
What is the indirect speech of he said' my god i am ruined'?
He said that oh my God! Iam ruined
What were the sabotages between Loyalists and Patriots?
The patriots tarred and feathered the loyalists. They also ruined loyalist houses.
Is 'Has ruined' an adjective?
No it is a verb phrase.She has ruined our day.
Is Tulisa's relationship being ruined by those two idiots in her group?
Yes,plus she lets the idiots slag her man,so she's as much to blame
