Is it good to be mesmerized?

Answer 1

Being "mesmerized" is simply to be completely fascinated by something or someone to the exclusion of all else. When mesmerized someone is usually happy - eg staring into the eyes of someone they find attractive, or completely absorbed in something interesting and enjoyable - and, therefore, for most it's probably a good state of mind to be in.

On the other hand, if psychologically overwhelmed by a threat or an abusive/ controlling person, then being "mesmerized" is not necessarily good. That stated, however, sometimes such mental "shutdown" is the only way some people can survive an unavoidable trauma (eg rape) without being totally destroyed psychologically by the experience.

Answer 2

Being mesmerized can be a positive experience as it can indicate a deep sense of fascination or captivation. However, it is important to be aware of your surroundings and not become so entranced that you are no longer present or mindful of your actions.