If you are insecure you have to find a way to deal with these issues and get by them or they could cause problems for you throughout your life. One thing that you could try is to just tell your boyfriend that you are feeling insecure. Some guys could take that... others might not react well. You know him, and how he will probably react. You could tell him that you get scared when he acts in a certain way... that might help him understand what he can do to avoid the reaction. You could also express that you are trying to trust him and act normally, but sometimes you get scared, and if he could help out a little bit by offering reassurance, that would help you get through it. Sorry wiki
If you think your bf is cheating on you you don't trust him. Also you may be insecure and you may not know what he is doing at all times and that bothers you. There is always the downside that he may actually be cheating on you.
Because he wants you for himself and doesn't like you giving attention to other boys. He may also be a bit insecure, so you need to reassure him that he is still most important to you.
insecure
it has to do with the behaviours exhibited in infants and or adults
Yes, insecurity is a character trait, if not a character defect.
is his kissing other girls or other guys?
no, Because your the boyfriend and he is an ex only.
he is feeling insecure and needs you to validate your feelings for him
if he loves her he would not care.
because you yourself are insecure
You can't. (but one poor soul wishes to disagree ... so:) You can, my boyfriend has a girlfriend who is obsessed with him! she would do and say anything to make me think he is cheating. some women are evil. they are insecure and jealous. you have to trust your man. my boyfriend shared intimate details with her; and she blurted it out in front of myself and his friends. she has proved she is crass and classless completely NOT what my boyfriend is attracted to.
You either have low self-esteem or he has cheated on you and you don't trust him.
Not really insecure but feel offended as that is rather rude. You should bring this up to him and make him realize what he said and that it was rather rude. No boyfriend should be telling you such a thing and I would even say that it warrants a break up because that is honestly rude. I would never ever see a reason where that would be warranted.
He may feel insecure, therefore he may feel by telling you lies, it makes him feel better about himself and alot more securer.
No. Everyone feels insecure at some point. Better to talk this over with your mom, a older sister, an grandma, or aunt. A another woman can help you work this out. Boyfriends don't understand this sort of thing. Of course, if you feel insecure about something he is doing (like touching you in places that you are not ready to be touched), you should tell him that you are not ready for that. It is perfectly okay to say you do not feel right about something like that.
Probably insecurity, or he is telling you that he chose you and only you out of those girls...
It means he's insecure.