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Cuckold fantasies spring from basic fears of emasculation and, ultimately, failure to succeed in the evolutionary imperative of mating and reproduction. Generally speaking, there is a lot of psychological freight that comes with manhood, and a lot of investment of ego. There is, therefore, a lot of fear. Cuckold fantasies eroticize that fear, a well-established coping strategy for the psyche.
As a man who has been happily cuckolded for nearly a decade and a half, I find several things appealing about it:
- First and foremost, it satisfies my masochistic sexual desires. By facing my fears erotically, I have learned to manage them and they no longer hold the sting they once did.
- It frees me from the fears of betrayal and rejection that so handicapped my younger days (and still hamper - even poison - so many of the more traditional marriages I see around me.) There is almost no jealousy in my marriage and none of the volatility it causes around sexual matters.
- It relieves me from performance anxiety, especially from the burden of having sole responsibility for my wife's sexual fulfillment. I want her to have all the joys of life she can fit in, and I know I couldn't give it all to her because no one person ever can. We recognize that in all other aspects of life, but when it comes to sex, it is supposed to be a one-man job. Well, I job-share.
- It deepens and strengthens the bonds between my wife and I. To do this sort of thing, you have to have complete honesty, open communication, and the courage to share your deepest vulnerabilities and darkest fantasies. all of which binds you beyond measure. In doing it, you also develop shared secrets and faced shared threats, which likewise breed trust, teamwork, and affection.
- It increases my wife's respect and love for me. She doesn't feel compelled or trapped as so many women do. A lot of marriages have an implicit legalistic haggling: "you owe me this," "this is the contract," "you signed on for this." The subtext of mine is much more voluntary. You know that old saying about "if you love something set it free?" My wife is here because she wants to be. That is true of all husbands and wives, but they often don't feel it and believe it the way mine does. Relatedly, she knows that I trust her and that makes her think the world of me. She thinks me brave and confident and altogether wonderful because I don't "demand" that she "give me my due." (As a result, she would volunteer it in a minute if she thought it would make me happy.)
- It opens the door to other intimacy. The trust and the sexual satisfaction leaves my wife much more comfortable being innovative and experimental with our lovemaking than she was before. She feels safe. This manifests itself in other aspects of our life beyond sex. We don't spend out lives walking on egg-shells as many couples do.
What else can I help you with?
Is it normal for men to fantasize being women?
Yes, it is not uncommon for men to fantasize about being women. Gender and sexuality can be fluid and individuals may explore different roles and identities in their fantasies. It is important for individuals to understand and explore their fantasies in a way that feels authentic and comfortable for them.
Why men Like to watch wife with other men?
For a variety of reasons. Some are so visually stimulated the act of seeing their wife with another it is more like a "live action porno". There is the classic "cuckold" reationship where the male submits to his wife's desires...This usually involves a variation of the Dom / Submissive relationship. And finally - the man may feel he is sexually inadequate and believes his wife deserves a level pleasure he cannot provide.
Are woman more ticklish than men?
There is no scientific evidence to support the claim that women are more ticklish than men. However, men and women may differ in the areas of the body they find to be most sensitive to tickling.
What do you call a gay man who has maternal instincts?
Gay men do not cease being men simply because of their sexual orientation. A gay man is a man, not a woman. The parental instinct of a man is called the paternal instinct. If a man identifies himself as a woman, then he is transgendered and that is a different issue than being gay.
Who is moody men or women?
Both men and women can experience moodiness based on a variety of factors such as hormonal changes, stress, sleep patterns, and emotional well-being. Moodiness is a common human experience and can vary from person to person regardless of gender.
If a man whose wife commits adultery is a cuckold what is a woman whose husband commits adultery?
The female variant of cuckold is cuckquean. However, it should be noted that the connotations of cuckoldry are currently taken to two extremes. There are some men who abhor the idea of being made a cuckold whilst there are others who relish this experience. A man who is a willing cuckold is called a wittol, but the term cuckold is used in fetish circles. (The pleasure of being made a cuckold can either come from the sadomasochistic humiliation of being "forsaken" or from the opportunity to "share" the experience in the form of an open relationship.)
What is the word for men who liike to watch their wives with other men?
Cuckold.
How do you use cuckold in a sentence?
Cuckold is a noun meaning a man who is married to an unfaithful wife. Cuckold is also a verb meaning to make a cuckold of. Example sentences: In some Greek myths, Zeus cuckolded men with beautiful wives. In Shakespeare's play, Othello was convinced that he was a cuckold. Guinevere and Lancelot cuckolded King Arthur. Only the wittol knows he is no cuckold.
Why do men find Thai women so appealing?
most Asian women are appealing to western men because of their demeanor and their stature, it brings out their protective nature toward women.
What does the Cuckold Forum offer?
The Cuckold Forum offers a wide variety of services. Particularly the forum is used as a dating site for women and men. The site offers people to take part in affairs.
What symbol can you wear to show a cuckold relationship men and women?
The symbol of porn. Which is a dick going in to a pusy
What is cuckold husband?
A husband is a man who is married. A cuckold is a married man whose wife/partner is sexually active another man (or other men). The adding of "husband" to cuckold is reundant, strictly speaking, as all cuckolds are husbands. However, in contemporary usage, cuckolding is also a BDSM feitsh in which one partner gets a masochistic thrill from the other partner's "non-monogamy." In this feitsh the "cuckold" need not be married, so the term "cuckold husband" is sometimes used to indicate the marital bond.
Should cuckold men wear panties?
The decision of whether cuckold men should wear panties is a personal choice and should not be dictated by societal norms or expectations. It is important for individuals to explore and understand their own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before engaging in any form of expression or role-play. Communication and mutual consent between all parties involved are crucial in any intimate relationship dynamics.
Why do hookers smoke?
To Look More Appealing To Men
Who is a cuckold?
A cuckold is a man whose partner is unfaithful, often without his knowledge. Traditionally, the term has been associated with a husband whose wife engages in sexual relationships with other men. In modern contexts, it can also refer to individuals who derive pleasure from the idea or reality of their partner being with someone else, sometimes as part of a consensual non-monogamous dynamic. The term has historical roots and can carry various connotations depending on its use.
What part of a womans body attracts men?
It depends on the man. Some men find women's eyes; mouth; long necks; shoulders; breasts; waists; hips or shapely legs appealing.
Why your husband wants you to cuckold?
Most men would not and, indeed lack of consent is part of the word's meaning. However a husband who was unable to impregnate his wife might make this choice. A man who wants his wife to be unfaithful to him, or at least consents to it is a wittol, not a cuckold. However, the word cuckolding is increasingly used in fetish circles for couples incorporate female infidelity into their relationship as a sexual kink. (The conceit of the BDSM variant game being that the cuckold in some form wishes he weren't cuckolded.) Why someone would want to be a cuckold in this fetish sense of the word is the same as why anyone would want to engage in sexual submission games - the eroticization of fear. In this case the fears involve emasculation and failure to live up to societal ideas of manhood.
