I think a child might react two ways.
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you must give them time to heal and don't be to pushy take your time let them see you will be there for them just be by their side .. one of my friends asked me the same question once i told him "u need to let them know that your srry for wat the other people might of done but you not like that and tell them u can trust me no matter wat" but don't use that to get there trust then crush them. well hope that helps you. (>^_^)> _____________________________________ you don't focus on gaining their trust, you just focus on being their friend and the trust will come. that's something they either will feel or they won't. I'm going through the same thing with someone and you can't push it no matter how much you want it. i have problems with trusting people myself so i know both sides of it. to be trusted we must be trustworthy, i just live and treat others the way i would want them to treat me and things just seem to fall into place...i then can only hope they are doing the same by me. tell them to f u c kin trust you
You either stop doing creepy things, or you avoid her for about a week and then she'll stop thinking of you as a creep if you do nothing wrong in that week. Once a girl thinks you are creepy there is no going back and it will take her months sometimes years to see that you aren't a creep. That is--if she is still in your life. But usually she will judge you by one little mistake and hate you for life. I have made a list of all the big no nos to prevent a girl from thinking you are creepy. 1. If you are shy and not very good at talking to girls do not try and talk to her often. If you repeatedly ask her to hang out, even as friends, she will begin to think you are creepy and tell you to stay away from her. The only exception is if she likes you back then she won't act like that. 2. If you get her cell number do not text her. If she doesn't text you first then only text her about once a month, or if u do just way what's up? or something like that and don't try to have an entire conversation over text because she won't want to text you unless she likes you and if she likes you she will text first. Also if you are texting a girl and she doesn't reply back never reply back something like, "are you there?" , "are you ignoring me?" or anything whatsoever like that or she will think you are creepy and tell you to stay away from her... Also never mention anything sexual over text or anything personal even if you have known her for a long time if she isn't interested in ou she will quickly be turned off by it and forget about all the good things you have done for her and how good of a friend you have been and she will tell you to stay away from her and your friendship will be over. 3. Never complain or tell a girl she is treating you wrong or act like you are the victim. Never get mad if she is hanging out with other guy friends, if she is your gf and she is screwing around then that is different, but never do that to a girl that just sees you as a friend. In a girls mind they are never wrong and they never do anything wrong to you and everything is your fault. If you ever meet a girl who apologizes to you for how she acts or something she says to you then she is truly a one of a kind and rare-but amazing girl. 4. If you are not skilled in getting women to be attracted to you then if you mention to a friend that you like her and she doesn't feel the same way to not get mad or angry or hurt that she rejected you. and if you are hurt never ever let her know or realize that and just go back to being her friend as if you never mentioned that you liked her or else you will permanently lose your friendship with her if you continue to pursue her. 5. Do not repeatedly message a girl on facebook or myspace or on facebook chat. and if she doesnt message back do not send another message until she replies. "Girls HATE pushy guys. it scares us. It makes us feel very threatened. We often don't know how to react, either, which scares us even more. We aren't bitches. And texts can be weird, unless the girl says to text. Texts mean you have a measure of familiarity. Like friends." Do not blame girls for being mean or heartless. It isn't their fault. In the U.S. society women are lead to believe that they are victims, it isn't their fault they think you are a creep it is just a stupid standard in society that guys have to act a certain way or be a certain way or else we are weird or creepy.. It is the same concept with people that are nerds in school or not cool or popular or socially acceptable. Girls are the worst about this and they can't help it. And every girl that reads this will deny it and say it isn't true because "they don't believe they are ever wrong and everything is the guy's fault". They never try to understand or be understanding about guys who aren't skilled at getting girls or outgoing and talkitive... they just see you as creepy or weird and you won't be able to change that, its just the way things are, society sucks and life is just tough and we just have to learn to survive and live with it. ^^ wow talk about limiting beliefs. OK, first of all #2 is extremely misguided. If a girl gives you her phone number, and you don't call her, she's going to feel like you rejected her. Text her once a month thing? That's absolutely ridiculous. Here's what you do. It's called being a man. Most likely she gave you her number because you requested it somehow. You did so for a reason. So text her !!! It also helps if you have a something to talk about. Think about what you're going to text her while you're in the conversation with her. That way you don't draw a blank. Avoid doing what every other guy does. As for the previous paragraph the arrows are pointing to-- Girls basically act on emotions. They do stuff that feels right to them, and that's fun. However, many times they are told that this is wrong. By society. By daddy. So if they think you will disapprove of what they feel is right, they will do it and you won't find out about it. If you do find out about it, it will always be your fault, as you said. I basically agree with everything else, although with a small note: You should pretty much do whatever you want with the girl you like. If she responds by thinking you're creepy, then she simply doesn't feel the same way, and you should move on. You have to make a choice. If you like her, you owe it to yourself to go for it AND NOT CARE how she reacts, and yes, you must be prepared to lose her friendship. Unfortunately, because of guys breaking the last paragraph of #2 (if she doesn't like you back, don't pursue her any further or you will lose the friendship forever.. the only part of #2 that I agree with) it is EXTREMELY RARE that a girl will concede to be friends with a guy who has shown interest in her beyond friendship, because so many guys are simply PRETENDING to be her friend until they get another chance to strike again. So that addendum basically states: Don't be afraid to be seen as creepy. In fact, most guys would do ANYTHING to avoid being called creepy, psycho or a loser. The worst insults EVER! If you refrain from ever showing any interest in a girl or saying anything sexual to her (playfully, in a non-creepy way) then that fear of being called creepy is going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy that gets you labeled creepy nearly every time. The fact is that women don't have it very well off. Part of why they hate creepy guys is because sometimes, they think.. FINALLY... A guy that's not like every other guy... and then when you do something creepy, it's like shooting their hopes down the toilet. Realize this, and if a girl thinks you're creepy simply because you were genuine and authentic with her about how you feel, then she doesn't realize that you might have been that guy she was looking for, and don't take it personally. Most importantly, in all that you do, realize that you're talking with a human being. PS: Forgot to mention, as a comment to the "don't repeatedly ask her to hang out thing." Yeah, you don't wanna do this, EVEN if you've already hung out with her. Basically, realize that if she's having fun with you, she's going to want more, naturally. And that's the best way. Have fun with her, don't worry about hanging out or hanging out again. Let it come natural. There's a way to slip it in at the right moment when she's most likely to go with it and it won't sound needy.
The inference of this question is that you want to know how to maximise your chances of engaging a young woman's interest in you; to engage her attention in such a way that she might agree to go on a date with you. It's not possible to "mesmerise" people in order to control them/ make them engage in intimacy against their wills, which would, in any case, were it even possible, be unethical, creepy, and criminal. It is, however, possible to talk and interact with women in courteous, respectful, and positive/ affirmative ways which, if developed artfully, will make them far more likely to respond positively to you than if you simply indulge in the posturing and showboating that young males tend to think impress them, but, in fact, generally don't! The following "tips" also presuppose that you already, to some degree, know the young woman who is the subject of your desire - perhaps she's at your school? - shares a college class or workplace with you?, or whatever... So, assuming you are already generally aware of each other; assuming that you have some naturally occurring "point of contact" (eg you might talk now and then over coffee in a larger group), and assuming she is happy to talk with you one to one... then you could, at an appropriate time, do something like this: 1.) Focus conversation on her - do not talk about yourself all the time! Take every opportunity to encourage her to express HER thoughts, ideas, opinions, feelings, and always pick up on any cues indicating her particular interests... and develop the conversation around those topics. 2.) Crucially, be affirmative and give constant positive feedback: don't overdo it by being too pushy/ in her face (ie don't "interrogate"!), but DO regularly say things like "that's really clever/ interesting/ fascinating", or "I'd never have thought of that!", or "that's amazing - tell me more!" etc etc.. Keep it calm, and always smile and make eye contact. 3.) Eye contact - critical, but be careful! No "mad eyed" stare that'll creep her out, but plenty of regular eye contacts matter. It's vital, however, to pace this to her - the more she looks at you, the more you can reciprocate. If she seems comfortable with more sustained eye contact (and especially if this is accompanied by pupil dilation; her toes pointing at you; open body gestures - eg she's leaning towards you; legs are uncrossed; her hands are regularly palm out towards you; she keeps touching her own cheek or playing with her hair, or, best of all, she keeps touching you!) then you can start to "work with her": her body language is, in effect, inviting you to do so. 4.) Slow the pace of your speech - almost murmur. Start to look directly into her eyes for more sustained periods, and periodically focus your gaze directly into only her left eye whilst paying her little compliments. Gently make regular physical contacts - touching a hand perhaps - especially when being complimentary, and notice her general demeanour/ facial expression. If she is clearly happy, comfortable, relaxed etc then you can sustain contact and start to develop things. If you've got to this stage, she is "mesmerised" - ie fully engaged in talking with you, pretty well to the exclusion of all else: her face will appear relaxed (her mouth probably slightly open), her pupils will be dilated, and she'll probably have a slightly "goofy" smile. She'll willingly allow physical contact, and will be happy for you to look into her eyes. Keep talking - ever so gently; always affirmatively - and hold her hand, stroking it gently. 5.) Revisit earlier conversational themes - reframe earlier questions/ comments; ask her for more developed ideas, opinions etc.. By so doing you're reaffirming your interest in her and her world view, and signalling that you want more. Throughout all this, sustain gentle contact (eg keep stroking her hand), and keep smiling, and wherever possible be gently humorous - share little jokes etc.. 6.) Finally, but very importantly, whilst making sustained eye contact (and perhaps holding and gently rubbing both her hands) tell her how interesting and attractive she is. Don't just say "I find you interesting and attractive" (!!?) - tell her, gently but firmly, that she's a fascinating person; that her eyes are deep, dark, warm and intelligent, or whatever...; that she has a cute nose, lovely neck, amazing cheek bones, beautiful figure etc etc.. Tell her you can't remember when you last had such an enjoyable time as this, and that you would really like to see her again - soon, but only, of course, if she feels likewise. Thank her for talking with you - you have really enjoyed her company. 7.) Give her your contact details - never ask for hers! Reaffirm that you really want to see her again - and soon, and state clearly that you would love her to get in touch. Tell her that, sadly, you must now go - a prior commitment (something like "My best friend is having a hard time right now, and I promised to go see him."); touch her forehead or cheek - once, but very deliberately. On your way - just before you exit/ disappear from her line of sight, turn deliberately; look directly at her, and if she's watching you - smile!
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Pushy is an adjective
You can't! The only thing you can do is LEAVE or LIVE WITH him.,,,,,,, If you are really pushy about it He will learn to keep it A better secret but he will not stop because of anything you do.
Many adults can be pushy to other people. Adults can be pushy because of personality or because they have been trained to be that way. Many are pushy because they lack social skills to ask for things nicely.
way to pushy sorry
It is not a good idea to use your tongue for pushy.
Take them out for a drink first - try not to pressurise them - meet their parents. Maybe arrange a weekend away together. Don`t be pushy though. Failing that Rohypnol seems to work for me. Take them out for a drink first - try not to pressurise them - meet their parents. Maybe arrange a weekend away together. Don`t be pushy though. Failing that Rohypnol seems to work for me.
You don't. It might be better if you just learned to respect her wishes. Maybe you could learn to not be pushy. Is that the reason she doesn't want to talk to you any more? Have you been pushy? It's her phone, she (or her family) pays the bill. She has the right to block you if that's what she wants.
"Pushier" is the comparative form of pushy. "Pushiest" is the superlative form.
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just be casual about it. if they start on the topic of your birthday just ask don't be shy but also don't be to pushy you don't want them to get annoyed.