When a child misbehaves why does the parent often blame the person being mistreated instead of their own child?

Answer 1

The parent who sticks up for the child who misbehaves has very poor parenting skills. Generally, their child misbehaves more on average than children of parents who are more active in teaching social skills and respect for others. The ineffective parent blames the victim for different reasons. Good parenting takes time and effort. Poor parenting is often a result of parents who are more concerned with their own needs or just plain laziness. Typically the parent is in denial of the fact that their child is a trouble maker or bully who lacks social skills and doesn't play well with others. Also, that type of parent is trying to hide from the reality that they are not doing a good job of raising their child.

Answer 2

Parents may find it difficult to accept or acknowledge their child's misbehavior, so they may redirect blame onto others to protect their child's image or avoid feeling responsible themselves. It can also be a way to deflect from addressing underlying issues within the parent-child relationship or in how they discipline their child. Ultimately, it's important for parents to recognize and address their child's behavior to support healthy development.

Answer 3

children got influence by the person who influence the child