Why do men treat a woman badly because she has low self esteem but treat a woman with respect because she is confident?

Answer 1

Some girls with low self esteem tend to act irrationally and tend be needy. They need constant love and attention in order to feel good about themselves. They need to feel worthy, but on their own terms.They love drama.They usually have a history of sexual partners, most of whom they slept with because the person thought they were beautiful. So who's to say that won't happen again if the guy doesn't give the girl enough attention?Girls like that often accuse their partner of cheating, because of their own insecurities. Girls with low self esteem often believe in revenge, "you-hurt-me-so-I'll-hurt-you", and will act accordingly when they see fit. They are like a puppy- adorable and sweet, but not mature enough to know how to act.They are basically "high-maintenance" and guys don't want that.
Girls with confidence know what they want out of life and work hard to get it. They don't know the word "pity-party" and don't depend on others. They usually have their ducks in a row. They are level-headed and don't play games.

People with low self-esteem's aren't Immature, people who are confident and sanguian tend to be more immature, to me I believe that shier girls are more mature than confident girls, as confident girls are always smiling and laughing and acting like little girls. The only men who give girls with low self-esteem's a hard time is the men who are nasty cocky bullies. Girls with low self-esteem's get picked on by those men because they tend to be more weak and sensitive and they dont stick up for themselves.

But then in some other ways maybe men think "if you treat yourself with respect, others will treat with respect" but men need to be more empathetic for a women who has a low self-esteem they go through hard times are continuously put down by a certain someone, any man who gives a women a hard time because she has a low self-esteem is a nasty pig. Women's self-esteem's gow low usually because they have already been given a hard time by a man or even women, so basically confident girls get put down by men just as much as girls with low self-esteem's because how do you think the girls self-esteem got low in the first place?

Answer 2

Men who mistreat women with low self-esteem may do so due to a desire for control and power, taking advantage of their vulnerability. When men respect confident women, it may stem from admiration for their self-assurance and ability to set boundaries. Insecurities and societal norms about gender roles can also play a role in how men perceive and treat women based on their self-esteem levels.