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Why do mental abusers change dramatically from being nice to being distant and upset?
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∙ 19y ago
Mental abusers generally suffer from depression (manic depression in most cases.) They can ride on a high and suddenly hit rock bottom. Generally, they are unaware of it until someone brings it to their attention and even then they meet that person's statement with denial. It's a tough place to be trapped in your body (no excuse for abusing someone) and generally in the toughest cases the person will not reach out for help. Mental abusers are also about control. Although they seem powerful (a need to fear because they are the abuser) they are actually weak. Why? Because they always have to control the environment they are in or they have to control certain situations. They find it difficult to agree to disagree, or to listen and perhaps they might learn something (abusers think they have all the answers for everything). That is why many of these people are often wrongly labeled as narcissistic. In reality, if they searched out psychological help and even were on medications (not always for the rest of their lives) they would simmer down and lead more productive lives. Mental abusers are also very jealous of those around them. They find it difficult to be happy for a family member or friend who has had some luck in their lives. Instead of joining in and celebrating with that family member or friend they will sulk, become sharp tongued or ignore the person completely. If you study a mental abuser you will see they are at their happiest when their environment is level, when they are getting their own way, but, all of us know these good times don't last forever in our lives, so when the luck starts to run out, the mental abuser will become angry, feel as if they are not in control and can even go into rages to try and regain that control. Marcy
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∙ 19y ago
Mental abusers often use tactics such as alternating between being nice and distant or upset to manipulate and control their victim. This behavior keeps the victim off balance and unsure of what to expect, making them more vulnerable and easier to control. It is a common tactic in abusive relationships to maintain power and control over the victim.
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Are all battered men mental abusers?
Mentally or physically, the abused have the choice to break the cycle! The Past isn't what we live with, it's the present and future we focus on for a happy ever lifestyle. Everyman choose's their own future, we either focus on a negative life or a positive one. If your experiencing this type of mental abuse, demand change. Improve your quality of life, be attentive just being happy, not focusing on needding or depending on anyone but yourself. You must be a whole individual before you want a relationship and that type of lifestyle. There is a big difference between being alone and bein lonely. Hope this helps
What is the opposite to mental?
Non-Mental
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Schizophrenia is a mental illness that can impact a person's ability to think clearly, manage emotions, make decisions, and relate to others. It can lead to difficulties in adjusting to change and maintaining social relationships. Symptoms can include delusions, hallucinations, disorganized thinking, and reduced motivation.
What is the adjective for mental?
Mental already is an adjective.
What is the noun for the word mental?
The noun form of the adjective 'mental' is mentality.
Are all mental abusers Narcissistic and what is the difference?
Not all mental abusers are. A narcissist is someone who suffers from a specific personality disorder called "Narcissistic Personality Disorder." This disorder is relatively rare. Not all abusers suffer from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - although many of them have narcissistic traits.
Can domestic violence cause mental health problems?
Yes, definitely. Usually abusers come from abusive families and may be mentally ill themselves.
Do Scandinavian countries treat drug abuse as a mental health issue?
Drug abusers are, free of charge, admitted to clinics if they so desire and are given Metadon if they desire, thus partially treat it as a mental health issue.
What happens to people who are abusers?
You dont say what type of abuser, Although all abuse is wrong in the UK emotional- mental abuse is not considered a crime against an adult,even though it carries all the same risk to the victims mental health and wellbeing,In answer to your question(What happens to abusers) if they are not caught they go on to abuse others and if they are caught they get whats coming to them in terms of a prison sentence. My answer is one word, Karma.
What terms means condition of change?
change in mental status
Are all mental abusers extremely cheap and don't want to spend their money unless absolutely necessary?
Mental abusers come in all shapes, sizes, races, cultures and some are actually very generous when the mood strikes them. However, some abusers use money, children and fear to control the victim of abuse. There isn't much he can do so go see a lawyer because 1/2 of everything is yours! Never forget that! You can also nail this sucker for part of his pension or any retirement plan he may have at work. Go for it and don't hang around and take this anymore. Good luck Marcy
Is behavior a physical change?
no its mental and physical.
Juan is reading a book set in the distant past. He gets a picture in his mind of a castle on top of a hill. This is an example of what?
Making mental images. -Hershey
Is a piece of mental bent in half a physical or chemical change?
physical
Does the effects on mental health change as personality changes?
yes what ever the mood is so the heatlh will change as well
Is it common for an abuser to despise jealousy and even ridicule those who sometimes feel it?
It is common for abusers to look down on people for whatever reason. It is common for abusers to assume the high moral ground. And it is common for abusers to feel jealous but castigate jealousy in others.Decrying in others your own traits, emotions and behaviors is called "projection". It is a defense mechanism.Yes, this is very common when dealing with those with BPD/NPD mental disorders. It takes a very strong know your own self person to stand against the storm of slander and abuse that will come your way as the victim upon breaking all ties from such persons.
Why do a lot of answers to abuse questions contain an explanation of stalkers and borderline personality disorder rather than an actual answer to the question?
Because it is hard to separate possibly dangerous behaviors from the abusive personality. I think there are several theories as to why abusers act as they do and there are many labels out there for the cause. As in any discipline, there are theories and real life answers and so you see both in the answers. Many abusers can stalk their victim if she has decided to leave the relationship and it happens more often than one can imagine. Abusers are about psychological mess-ups. They are controllers, and either mental or physical abusers. If you would like to learn more about it please go onto: www.google.com and type in: What is the cycle of abuse? Hope it helps. Marcy Ask your question and I'll be glad to answer it. Hope to hear from you. Marcy
