Because they are dissatisfied. Human beings generally complain -- or make their dissatisfaction known in a verbal manner -- when they feel dissatisfied with:
Humans also voice dissatisfaction when they feel they:
Other people complain about their circumstances, despite the fact that they have enough money, adequate housing and transportation, good family support, a thorough education with a good salary at a great job, and seem to have "every advantage" in life. Psychologists say that people with these circumstances may have feelings of "entitlement" that makes them believe they are "owed" more in life. Nothing feels meaningful or satisfactory, no matter how much advantage they have. In some cases, underlying depression can be behind this thinking. Or, sometimes, people who feel entitled lack empathy-- they cannot put themselves in other people's shoes and thus, feel grateful for what they do have.
A person who does not complain is a content person a person who at most times is at ease one who is in harmony with his/her circumstances without being uptight.
Some people do, often because it is their nature. Complaints are a valid way to release the stress associated with bothersome situations, or unfair treatment. When complaints are over trivial or uncorrectable situations, they can aggravate others who come in contact with the complainer. A side effect of complaining too much is that when complaints are actually valid and correctable, others are less likely to help correct them.
Before I answer, you should remove the notion that we "complain so much". Even though people in general have their own ways of dealing with their concerns, there are some noticeable differences in the ways males and females handle their problems. Males tend to look inward and hide what they feel may be a minor problem, while women see an underlying problem that must not be let go until it is resolved. While some people think that one method of handling emotions is better than the other, if you think about it, both are effective and make sense; they are both good ways of handling things. For males, letting things go allows for the person to be positive and to move on. They don't let little things bother them, but they may overlook something that may be more serious than it lets on. For females, we have a desire to immediately solve anything to prevent it from happening again. We're usually able to see the underlying message in things, but because we have trouble letting go of problems, it is harder for us to move on, so we stay unhappier longer; we don't like being angry, but we feel that if the person we had trouble with thought everything was okay, the same mistake would repeat itself, which is why we try to make it a point when something is wrong. Again, though, all people are different, and will have different ways of handling their emotions. If you're living with multiple people- some of them the opposite sex- try to come to a compromise when problems arise. Try to be open-minded and understanding, at least to a certain extent, while coming to a compromise.
Confirmation bias: Focusing on information that confirms pre-existing beliefs while ignoring contradictory evidence. Availability bias: Giving more weight to information that is more easily recalled, rather than considering the full range of evidence. Implicit bias: Unconscious attitudes or stereotypes that can influence behaviors and decisions without conscious awareness. Selection bias: Systematically favoring certain groups or types of information over others, leading to a skewed representation of reality.
Primarily because those around them may dislike the smell, and/or dislike secondhand smoke. Since if you dont want to smoke and someone around you is, your inhaling their smoke whether you want to or not.
Mainly because they come across as self centered, very self involved and selfish.
I'm no expert on the subject, but I would like to complain about the service I've received. I can't complain, but sometimes I still do. The people at the complaint desk complain about having to answer complaints.
People like to vent it makes them feel better
Complain about the French Complain about the French
Because it is loud and filled with aids.
There is a personality disorder called hypochondria. If they complain a lot about their physical being, then something is actually wrong in their mental being.
Because they are groan-ups. Get it? Hopefully you were looking for a punch line...
some people just like to complain for sympathy.
So the deaf have something to complain about too.
There's too much red tape, rules and regulations to follow
Only when there's reason to complain, my friend, only when there's reason to complain! (nods slowly)
Querulous.