Why do people get together and become friends over bashing another person?

Answer 1

It may seem like friendship, but it's really not. It's people seeking out allies so that they can feel more powerful. Perhaps you have heard the old expression "misery likes company"-- some people who are angry and resentful about some aspect of their life will seek out other people who share their sense of grievance; they then find someone they can blame for their problems, or they try to find someone they believe they can bully. It's sad that this happens-- often, it's a behavior in middle schools or high schools, where the people doing it are not very mature and not thinking about the consequences of their actions.

If you are the person being bashed, seek out some support from people you trust, people who care about your well-being. Keep in mind that you did nothing wrong: when you (or someone else) are unfairly targeted by bullies, it's rarely logical or rational. The good news is that these "friendships" seldom last, and bashers tend to move on to some other target sooner or later; sometimes, they even turn on each other. I hope you are able to find some real friends, because they will stand by you and not listen to the things that negative people have to say.

Answer 2

Sometimes people bond over shared negative feelings towards someone else because it creates a sense of unity or camaraderie. However, this type of friendship is often superficial and based on negativity rather than genuine connection. It's important to cultivate positive and healthy relationships built on mutual respect and support.